Your Soul Food for the First Week of 2025: Your Road to a Great Year!

This week:

People who volunteer improve their heart and brain health, research finds : Shots – Health News : NPR

(6) Helen Bevan on X: “Taking a systems approach to leading with kindness. An outstanding new paper – Dec 2024. Kindness means helping others do better. If, as leaders, we want to create a satisfying & meaningful career experience for colleagues which promotes optimal well-being & healthspan, we https://t.co/CIeEcjc7mk” / X

Here’s how to be truly happy, according to the longest happiness study in the world | Fortune Well

Tech billionaire shares his 5-word piece of advice for a successful future

Fighting snow leopards clinch top spot in the prestigious Nature Photographer of the Year 2024 competition | Discover Wildlife

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the Holy Week of December 2024: Guest House, Gift Bliss, 7 Tips for Mental and Cognitive Health over the Holidays and more…

This being human is a guest house.

Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!

Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still treat each guest honorably.

He may be clearing you out for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.

MentalHealth.com on X: “Adorable. Look at how happy she is https://t.co/cgfYINW1BG” / X

𝕐o̴g̴ on X: “Best present ever..🐶🐾🎁😍 https://t.co/CeFzUP122m” / X

Our best tips for cognitive health – The Washington Post

As we glide into the final days of 2024, I’m keen to remind us that meditation isn’t another task to check off our list, but a devotion to the art of being.

Like our Pacific ocean’s tides – ebbing and flowing day in and day out – our practice trains us to return, again and again, to being rooted, to rising, and to relaxing into experience. 
We sit not to become better, but to remember that we are already whole. 

Each breath, each moment, is an invitation to waking up to reality – to meet life as it is, with open hearts and open minds. 
In 2025, I invoke for us all to keep our practice steady, like the sun rising each morning. 

It is this gentle devotion that beckons the deepest truth and nurtures a peace within us.
With warmth and presence,

Eric

Thanks this week go to Eric K for reminding us why we practice, and to all of you who share the soul food spirit of love and purpose every day.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Winter Solstice 2024

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

A Solstice Blessing by Padriag O’ Tuama:

As night stretches here,
day contracts elsewhere.
And in their night, we are
bathed in light. In all nights
there is light, in long days
there can be ache too.
For you, we call the sun
to stand still a while, and
the moon too, and stars, and
the waters and the heavens.
Hells as well — just for a
second, just for a breath.
May that breath rest you.
And may each breath rest you,
as it has until now, and now
and now. This one, after
that one, after that one after
that.

A simple exercise from Yale’s Happiness Lab will help you make decisions that lead to long-term happiness:
The creator of Yale’s popular class discusses how to transform your self-talk, change how you experience stress, and create space for serendipity.

How to make better decisions for long-term happiness- Fast Company

Volunteering Over the Holidays?
Altruism is indeed “enlightened self-interest”

For those that know, no words are necessary.

For those that don’t know, no words will suffice.

But the data is in:

Altruism improves happiness and well-being, research finds – The Washington Post

13 marvelous images from the European Wildlife Photographer of the Year awards:
A polar bear sits seemingly unbothered by a heavy snowstorm pummeling down. Photographer Daniel Valverde Fernandez captured the moment (seen above) the bear gave a vigorous shake to send the powder flying into the swirling winds.

13 marvelous images from the European Wildlife Photographer of the Year awards | Popular Science

Wishing you and yours a joyous holiday season!

Love,

Neville

Your Soul Food for Lucky Friday December 13, 2024: You Are More Successful Than You Think!

This week:

If you can answer ‘yes’ to 6 questions, you’re more successful than you think
Scott Mautz, a former senior executive, has spent 30 years studying what makes people mentally strong and successful. Here’s a mini-assessment.

If you answer ‘yes’ to 6 questions, you’re more successful than most

5 science-backed habits that will actually make you happier
They’re all easy, don’t worry.

How to be happier: 5 science-backed habits for happiness

Tai chi isn’t just for seniors. The workout boosts strength, flexibility, and longevity, no matter what your age
Plus, getting started is easy. Here’s how.

Tai chi helps with strength, flexibility, and longevity—no matter what your age | Fortune Well

Plus, some Pure Fun!

Steve Martin going toe to toe with Gregory Hines:

(20) Danny Deraney on X: “This is so cool. Steve Martin going toe to toe with Gregory Hines in 1981. https://t.co/cJPvJNwGrR” / X

Please pay it forward!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday Dec 6th, 2024: The Power of Now, Doing Good is Good for You and Hope is More Powerful Than Mindfulness

This week:

The Power of Now:

Doing Good is Good for You, Research Shows:
Altruism, such as volunteering and donating, has been shown to improve happiness and well-being, and may be fundamental to being human.

Altruism improves happiness and well-being, research finds – The Washington Post

Hope Can Be More Powerful Than Mindfulness:
In difficult times, a forward-looking mindset may be especially helpful. In troubling times, how do we move forward? What mindsets help us bounce back from adversity?

Hope Can Be More Powerful Than Mindfulness | Scientific American

And some righteous humor-

These Babies are Hilarious Imitators!

(20) The Instigator on X: “Babies are shameless 😂😂 https://t.co/Jv9OvLEFqA” / X

Pay it forward with purpose!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food Friday for the Week of Thanksgiving 2024: “Enoughness is a Radical Act in an Economy that is Always Urging us to Consume More”

This week:

“Enough-ness is a radical act in an economy that is always urging us to consume more”

 (8-minute listen on All Things Considered)

What humanity could learn from natural ecosystems, according to a botanist : NPR

(20) Restoring Your Faith in Humanity on X: “She knew the right thing to do for this little family was to let them say their last goodbyes, too, and know why their little sister wasn’t around anymore. These pets deserve closure too. 😭❤️ https://t.co/mWlxHdpc90” / X

14 Signs Your Dog Loves You: How Do Dogs Show You Love? – PureWow Publisher

If you are local-

Reminder: Free Event

We need your voice and viewpoint to create a better future!

Gig Alert!

Drivin the Bus will be at the Loma Club on Sunday Dec 1 from 1 to 4pm outdoors at our second to last gig of 2024.

Kid and Pet friendly venue and no cover charge.

Loma Club – Drivin’ The Bus

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday 11/22/24: “What if economics didn’t start with money but with human wellbeing”?

This week:

“What if economics didn’t start with money but with human wellbeing”?

Did you know that even the creators of GDP (Gross Domestic Product) felt it was an inadequate measure as it does not count intangible upsides like Taylor Swift’s IP or the value of Childcare, or on the other side of the ledger, the adverse consequences and downsides like climate change, deforestation, ocean apocalypse, extreme heat, etc.

We are putting together a San Diego Doughnut Portrait with CalDEC (California Doughnut Economics Coalition) to solve for this important but complex question- in partnership with academia, business, government, and the social sector (nonprofits and philanthropy)

If you are not familiar with the body of work here is a 15-minute primer: Kate Raworth’s TED Talks: Why it’s time for Doughnut Economics

If you are local, please join us for this San Diego Doughnut Portrait Session on December 5th from 4-5:30pm

RSVP at the Link below and we can send you more deets and see you there:

Do these 3 things to feel happier today—they take less than 10 minutes

Pharrell – Happy (Puppy & Doggy Version) – YouTube

If you are local-

Gig Alert

Strange Crew – Clapton Tribute Night! | Duck Foot Brewing Co

Come join us for Strange Crew’s last show of 2024…

Thanks to Chris B for the Happy Puppy Vid!

Please pay if forward.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Veteran’s Day Week 20024: Love Big and How to Bounce Back

Happy Soul Food Friday

This week:

Thank you for your service!

45 Veterans Day Quotes to Say Thank You For Your Service

The No. 1 type of person we need in life: They ‘help us feel our best’

Arthur Brooks Shares What Habits Are Barriers To Happiness

(18) 𝕐o̴g̴ on X: “He’s a professional..🐕🐾🛹😍 https://t.co/0pRW6KNTyS” / X

Please pay if forward with purpose.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the first week of November 2024: Sage Advice from Legends

Happy Soul Food!

Getting this missive in this week before election madness.

In Memoriam- One of the most influential forces in music:

Quincy Jones, music legend who shaped Michael Jackson’s career, dies – Los Angeles Times

Enjoy some sage advice from a legend, who demonstrated that if you want to be a master of your craft, you have to be a consummate student!

Put your soul into your art!

A whole series of mistakes, one day becomes experience…

The Best Advice: (3 minutes)

The Best Advice Quincy Jones Ever Got

Quincy Jones’s 10 Rules for Success: (12 minutes)

You’re (Probably) Killing Your Creative Potential! | Quincy Jones

Plus-

The Legacy of Ratan Tata: Leading on Purpose and Uplifting a Country

The Great Business Leader You May Never Have Heard Of

Here is to fully loving yourself and manifesting your greatness!

Please pay if forward.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Halloween Week 2024: Fear Nothing!

This week:

I may die today

I may die today

And as I go on with my life, it’s clear that with every moment, the uncertainty of this statement diminishes while its certainty grows.

Yes, I may die today

And when that moment comes, the only thing that will matter is how I made everyone feel in each of my interactions.

Yes, I may die today

The core of my character defines how I live and what motivates my every action.

Beyond what I say, my character speaks volumes about who I am.

Ethics, character, principles, consciousness, and morality define who I am.

This election could be the last one I vote in. Yes, policies are important—but only if they arise from a consciousness grounded in ethical and moral values. My vote reflects who I am and what truly matters to me in my life and in my relationship with you.

“I may die today” is a Tibetan mantra that reminds us of our priorities in life.

(20) B-jay on X: “”Happy Halloween” Check out this dog dressed as a giant spider. Good fun! https://t.co/4zW69lpQh6″ / X

(20) NewYorkCityKopp on X: “🎃🎃🎃🎃 New Yorkers are practicing the “Thriller” dance today, which is the favorite part of the West Village Halloween Parade in New York City every year 🧟‍♂️🧟‍♀️🧟 New York City’s 51st Annual VILLAGE HALLOWEEN PARADE is Thursday, October 31, 2024 at 7 pm. Presented LIVE on https://t.co/4j1PEHaAzM” / X

If you are up for some live music and the classic jams, Drivin the Bus has gigs all around San Diego, on Oct 31st (Halloween) and Nov 3.

Drivin’ The Bus | California’s Premiere All-Star Jam Band

Hearty thanks this week go to Mehrad N, Eric K, & Drivin the Bus.

Please pay if forward with purpose and play it like you mean it!

Love,

Neville

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