Your Soul Food for Friday June 12, 2026: The Six Guardians of Health and Wellness- Keep Up The PACE!

If you can’t tell, each week I reflect and share something that I am personally working on or struggling with (like sleep hygiene) or noticing with alacrity  (like the importance of art and culture) in our world.

This week I dug into the oldies but goldies file and revisited something I curated many moons ago and updated it.

Hopefully, this week’s missive is still timely and resonates with you…

You are what you eat.

Both disease and energy come through food.

Unfortunately, most of us eat for the sake of eating not for the sake of health.

Our food, from a holistic perspective, serves two primary functions.

The first is to nourish and give us energy (assimilate).

The second is to clean out and detoxify (eliminate).

All foods eaten for health and not just to indulge the taste buds should aid in either or both these functions.

Typically, eating natural unrefined foods provides the optimum source of nutrition and energy.

Eating “food without faces” is often suggested for a long and healthy life.

Unless you have an eating disorder, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to eat less.

(Systematic under-eating)

For the average person in western cultures today, only one fourth of what we eat actually helps us.

The rest helps the doctor! (No offense my dear doctor friends, but a bonus for you below…)

Overeating simply overtaxes our system, wastes valuable natural resources, and creates other health problems down the road.

Do you know there are as many starving people in the world as there are overweight people?

Finally, it is not just what you eat or how much you eat, but HOW you eat that makes a big difference.

So many of us eat junk, eat too much and, if you are like me, eat too fast. Learn to take time to enjoy the process of eating.

Savor every mouthful.

Be grateful you are not one of the people on this planet today that is hungry, malnourished, or starving to death.

Half our planet is undernourished!

Mindful eating counts.

Don’t put another mouthful in until the previous mouthful has been completely swallowed.

Take time to make the process of eating a joyous, even meditative experience.

This conscious eating honors the food, appreciates the chef, embraces the life energy made available through the meal and ultimately provides more than calories, protein, carbs, fats, vitamins, minerals, antioxidants etc.-it provides life itself.

Try changing one thing about what, how and how much you eat today and notice the difference…

Usually, when we think of our living environment, we think of the place where you live.

Your living environment, however, includes the place and CONDITIONS under which you live.

It is not enough to have a clean, bright, airy home or apartment in outer harmony with nature in perfect feng shui alignment, if the inner environment is one of stress, tension, and discord.  

Creating an environment of support, comfort, and inner safety can do wonders for the health and well-being for all members of the household.

See if you can identify some things you can do to make your living environment a sanctuary from the stress and tension in and around you.

Commit to making your living environment the best you can!

All exercise is good, but not all exercise is good for all people!

Today, everyone seems to be touting the benefits of exercise for strengthening the body, relaxing the mind, reducing heart disease, and even offsetting depression.

Exercise can be broken down into vigorous, moderate, and gentle forms.

Recent studies have validated the dramatic benefits of even a little exercise on our health, with less dramatic advantages of intense exercise over longer periods.

If a little is good, a lot must be better, doesn’t hold true when it comes to exercise, although this varies from individual to individual.

The old adage of no pain, no gain is also vigorously disputed in the current literature, which validates what holistic practitioners have been saying for thousands of years:

Involve yourself in types of exercise you enjoy.

Enjoy the process of exercising not just the end result.

Exercising for admirable abs or bodacious buns is probably not worth it if you don’t enjoy the process.

In fact, it might be killing you!

So much for the killer workout… It might be doing just that!

It seems that certain types of exercise do suit most people.

These include-walking, swimming, yoga, and tai chi.

Yoga and tai chi emphasize the flow of life energy in the whole-body releasing toxins and creating a sense of wellbeing.

Maintaining flexibility and range of motion have long been key elements in developing total health-so stretch yourself every day!

Regardless of the form of exercise or cross-training regimen you select, make sure you learn, practice, and emphasize the proper breathing method.

The benefits of using the proper breathing method cannot be overstated and makes a tremendous difference in the process of exercising and the ensuring results.

Attend to ki, chi, prana, life force or whatever you choose to call it.

One of the most sorely neglected aspects of wellness, pun duly intended, is rest.

In today’s fast-paced society, most of us simply do not get enough rest. The right amount of rest is defined by your ability to recoup energy and repair damaged tissue.

Depending on your lifestyle and disposition, the amount of rest you need will vary. If you are involved in a lot of hard labor or intense exercise you will obviously need more rest than those whose lifestyles are more sedentary.

But… “rest should not turn into rust!”

Living in the urban jungle, we often lose our connection to nature. For countless generations, our ancestors lived in balance with nature, and recognized and celebrated the interconnectedness and interdependence with all of nature.

Reawakening our primal links to Mother Earth, Father Sky, Brother Sun and Sister Moon reminds us of one simple fact:

Nature is full of energy!

It is yours for the taking (Shakuraki is a term the Japanese use about how we can borrow energy from nature) and there is an abundance of it so take as much as you need!

Sunshine is a natural source of Vitamin D.

Sunshine is also a natural germicide and insecticide.

Fresh air purifies the organs and sharpens the senses.

We take in air through the lungs but also through the skin.

Pure water flushes us inside and out.

Drinking seven glasses of clean water a day is excellent for us.

Getting in cold water (hydrotherapy) causes the capillaries to shrink on the outside and forces the blood to be shunted to the heart, thereby cleansing and tonifying the circulatory system.

Spending time outdoors in communion with nature can do wonders for one’s state of mind.

Get out your calendar right now and block off some time in nature today, this week and this month.

 Heck the weather is wonderful…

It is well known that the mind governs the body and the body affects the mind. In western psychology, we talk about a psychophysiological isomorphism– a one-to-one relationship between body and mind.

In today’s society of negats and negaholics, one must put on the armor of one’s own positive thoughts. It takes practice to re-program ourselves toward positive thinking.

Sadly, according to scientists, we give ourselves thousands of negative messages each day.

Worrying is nothing but negative goal setting.

And 90% of the things we worry about-NEVER HAPPEN!

Positive autosuggestion takes practice.

We all get to choose whether we want to elevate or degrade our mental attitude.

Being grateful, practicing forgiveness, rewarding yourself daily, laughter and humor, play and recreation, meditation, and prayer, practicing self-love, using affirmations, developing your own self-healing script, and practicing positive self-talk are some powerful ways to change your attitude and keep the change.

As a Sensei of ours would say, a sense of pleasure, accomplishment, contentment, and enthusiasm for life (PACE) are some key indicators that you are on your way to cultivating and developing the right mental attitude.

Drill for skill.

Practice like you want to perform.

What you do-you become.

Repetition is the key to anchoring a new behavior, attitude, or skill.

With the six guardians mentioned above, you are well on your way to creating a healthy life.

sow a thought-reap an action

sow an action-reap a habit

sow a habit-reap a character

sow a character-reap a destiny!

And lastly a bonus after dissing my doc friends 😊

Doctor set out to find what helps people ‘defy disease’—here’s what she found

Be well and keep up the PACE. You’ve got this!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for May 1st, 2026, the Flower Moon today, the Splendor of Nature and last call for Joy Jam May 9th!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

After enduring a month of rain (April), we are now able to enjoy the gorgeous blooming flowers.

This full moon is all about reaping the benefits of your hard work—and releasing anything that might be preventing your own growth.

Join us for a communing that will catalyze our well-being on May 9th.

Commune with nature right here in San Diego County and enjoy the flowers!

May you flower and bloom this May Day!

Last Call for Joy Jam next Saturday May 9th in Encinitas!

I don’t know if you have noticed, but we are in dire need of the 51st state in the union, the state of Joy!

This will not be created by government for the people.

This will be created by our own actions as the people!

If you are like me and could use a bit more joy in your life and your community, I strongly encourage you to sign up for this one-of-a-kind family-friendly, pay what you want experience.

The antidote for Collective Heart Failure is our community gathering in presence with love, joy, and care. Chance may favor the prepared mind, but Joy favors the prepared heart.

Let’s give Father Profit a break and Mother Earth a chance as we recently celebrated Earth Day and now celebrate May Day!

We already have 200 joy-filled people signed up and are almost sold out, so if this vibe resonates, it’s now or never!

Get Tickets – JOY JAM – Seaside Center for Spiritual Living

The Full Flower Moon in Scorpio Is Coming: Everything You Need to Know
Today, May 1, we will experience the full moon in Scorpio. Also known as the Flower Moon, May’s first full moon will be both empowering and celebratory.

Here’s what you should know about this impactful spring full moon.

The Full Flower Moon in Scorpio Is Coming: Everything You Need to Know

Here’s What Spending 20 Minutes Outside Every Morning Does to Your Brain
The morning habit that costs nothing—and does more for your brain than you might think.

Here’s What Spending 20 Minutes Outside Every Morning Does to Your Brain

We just got back from a Rhine River Cruise, including an inspiring visit to the Keukenhof Gardens in Amsterdam at the peak of tulip season.

Check out this video and see what nature’s splendor looks like:

Tulip fields near Amsterdam in Holland – Tulip Festival Amsterdam

More pics here:

Keukenhof Gardens (Amsterdam, Holland) – Opening hours, prices

Peak bloom arrives at Carlsbad Flower Fields
The Flower Fields at Carlsbad Ranch has reached peak bloom, with nearly 80 million Giant Tecolote Ranunculus flowers covering 55 acres of hillside, offering visitors a limited window to catch the fields at their most colorful from April 6 to April 20

Peak bloom reached at Carlsbad’s Flower Fields

Here is where you can get your tickets:

Home – The Flower Fields

An extraordinary number of flowers are brightening roadsides and trails right now, transforming the desert’s tawny browns and beiges into a vibrant tapestry of color.

It’s an ideal time to plan a trip to see lupine, desert lily, primrose, and poppies in bloom.

Where to See Desert Wildflowers in California Right Now | Visit California

Please pay it forward with joy and love!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday August 29, 2025: “Children are the living messages we send to a time we will not see.” + Free Self Care Webinar from Me c/o NCPC Sept 3 at Noon

Happy Soul Food Friday,

This week:

If you could use some Self Care- Take Care of Yourself and Take Care of Others!

On Wednesday September 3rd from Noon to 1pm with NCPC and San Diego Gives; I am running a self-care webinar.

Small Things Often: Micro Habits that Foster Macro Competencies

An authentic embodied great reset- in self-compassion and self-care- for conscious leaders and culture transformers

 Even the heart pumps blood to itself first. As leaders and practitioners, we often invest substantial energy in serving others, and as a result don’t always attend to our own needs. Here is an opportunity to provide you, and by extension those in your community, with simple and proven energetic techniques- supported by both western science and eastern wisdom traditions- that reduce chronic stress and upskill resilience and fortitude, particularly in times of challenge and uncertainty.  

What you may not know about Me:

The wellness of business. The business of wellness.

Neville who was born in India and has invested his lifetime in bridging the east/west divide and synergizing the best of both cultures, brings over 40 years of practicing and teaching the wisdom traditions, including traditional martial arts, yoga, and meditation to this session.

He has been applying these principles in the world of work with conscious leaders as well as deep purpose driven cultures that value all stakeholders in the ecosystem, and are committed to wellness, wholeness, and purpose not just profit. This includes leading and coaching businesses, nonprofit organizations, as well as K-12 and institutions of higher education, while serving in his executive role at Mission Fed. Additionally, he serves on a variety of boards and volunteers his time to uplift those furthest from opportunity in our San Diego community.

Neville, and NCPC are honored to bring these micro habits to the San Diego community with “Small things often!”

If you are interested, please register here and you can get the recording even if you can’t make the actual event and do share with your network please!

“DADDY’S FUNERAL – NEED SCARY MEN.”

The little boy came to our table of leather-clad bikers and slammed down a paper that said, “DADDY’S FUNERAL – NEED SCARY MEN.”

His tiny fingers were still stained with marker ink, and his Superman cape was on backwards. The diner went dead silent as fifteen members of the Iron Wolves MC stared at this kid who couldn’t have weighed forty pounds soaking wet.

“My mom said I can’t ask you,” he announced, his chin jutting out defiantly. “But she’s crying all the time and the mean boys at school said daddy won’t go to heaven without scary men to protect him.”

Big Tom, who’d done two tours in Afghanistan and had a skull tattooed on his neck, carefully picked up the paper. It was a child’s drawing of stick figures on motorcycles surrounding a coffin, with “PLEASE COME” written in backwards letters.

“Where’s your mom, little man?” Tom asked, his voice a low rumble that usually preceded a fight but was now impossibly gentle.

The boy pointed through the window to a beat-up Toyota where a young woman sat with her head in her hands. “She’s scared of you. Everyone’s scared of you. That’s why I need you.”

I’d seen Tom break a man’s jaw for disrespecting his bike. But his hands shook as he read what else was on that paper – a date, tomorrow, and an address for Riverside Cemetery.

“What was your daddy’s name?” someone asked from the back.

“Officer Marcus Rivera,” the boy said proudly. “He was a police officer. A bad man shot him.”

The silence in the diner got heavier, thick enough to choke on. Cops and bikers weren’t exactly natural allies. Most of us had been hassled, profiled, some even beaten by police. And now this cop’s kid was asking us to honor his fallen father.

Tom stood up slowly, his towering frame casting a shadow over the small table. “What’s your name, superman?”

“Miguel. Miguel Rivera.”

“Well, Miguel Rivera,” Tom said, kneeling so he was eye to eye with the boy, a giant meeting a sparrow. “You tell your mom that your daddy’s going to have the biggest, loudest, scariest escort to heaven any police officer ever had.”

The boy’s eyes went wide. “Really? You’ll come?”

“Brother,” Snake spoke up from the corner, and I could hear the conflict in his voice. “He was a cop.”

“He was a father,” Tom said firmly, his gaze never leaving Miguel’s. “And this little warrior just did the bravest thing I’ve seen all year. We ride.”

The next morning, I arrived at the cemetery two hours early. I thought I’d be the only one, a chance to get my head right before the awkwardness and the stares. But then my jaw dropped.

The narrow road leading to the cemetery entrance was already lined with bikes. Not just the fifteen of us from the diner, but our entire chapter. Forty men, standing quietly by their polished Harleys, the morning sun glinting off the chrome. But that wasn’t what stopped my heart. Further down the road, another group was pulling in. The Vipers. Our bitter rivals. And behind them, the Sons of Odin. Word had gotten out. A call had been made for scary men, and the entire goddamn scary underworld had answered.

When the funeral procession finally arrived, the hearse slowed to a stop. I saw Miguel in the car behind it, his small face pressed against the glass. His mother looked up, and her hand flew to her mouth, her expression of fear melting into stunned disbelief.

There were over a hundred of us. A silent army of leather and steel.

At some unseen signal from Tom, a hundred engines roared to life at the exact same instant. The sound was biblical. It wasn’t angry or aggressive; it was a deep, thundering proclamation. We are here. We formed a double line, a guard of honor for the hearse and the family and escorted them through the gates.

At the graveside, a small group of uniformed officers stood stiffly, their honor guard looking tense as we dismounted. They watched us, we watched them. But there was no trouble. We formed a wide, silent circle around the service, our backs to the family, facing outward. We were a wall, protecting their grief from the world.

After the service, as the last of the mourners were leaving, the police chief walked over to Big Tom. He was a hard-looking man I’d seen on the news a dozen times. He stopped, looked at Tom, then at the sea of bikers standing in silent respect.

“I… I don’t have the words,” the chief said, his voice rough. “Officer Rivera was a good man.”

Tom just gave a short, sharp nod. “He had a good son.”

That’s when I saw Miguel, holding his mother’s hand, walking purposefully toward us. He stopped in front of Tom, who immediately knelt again. Miguel wasn’t wearing his cape anymore. He was holding the folded American flag from his father’s coffin.

He held it out. “This is for you,” he said, his voice clear and steady.

Tom gently pushed it back. “No, little man. That’s yours. That’s your daddy’s.”

“My daddy was a hero,” Miguel said, pushing the flag firmly into Tom’s huge, tattooed hand. “He protected people. And today, you protected him.”

Tom stared at the flag in his hand, his jaw working, his whole-body trembling. The man I’d seen walk through a bar fight without flinching was completely undone by a forty-pound superhero. He couldn’t speak. He just nodded, his eyes shining with tears he refused to let fall.

We didn’t ride away with a roar. We left one by one, a quiet rumble that spoke of a respect that went deeper than clubs or colors or the badges on a uniform. We had come because a little boy asked for scary men. But we left knowing we’d just met the bravest one of all.

I’ve studied hundreds of highly successful kids—the No. 1 thing their parents teach early:
Parenting expert Jennifer Breheny Wallace has spent six years studying hundreds of high-achieving kids. Here’s why she says a “mattering mindset” is the secret to their success, and how parents can cultivate it from a young age.

I’ve studied hundreds of highly successful kids—the No. 1 thing their parents teach early

How 9 minutes of daily HIIT may improve kids’ brain function and learning, according to research
Researchers say nine minutes of exercise may be enough to boost children’s mood and cognitive skills.

How 9 minutes of daily HIIT may improve kids’ brain function and learning, according to research | Tom’s Guide

+ A feel good vid

Lion Seeks Forgiveness from Dog Best Friend in Heartwarming Gesture That Gains 30M Views
Friendships in the animal world can be full of surprises, especially when they involve a lion and a dog. While lions are often seen as fierce predators, sometimes they form bonds that defy all expectations.

Lion Seeks Forgiveness from Dog Best Friend in Heartwarming Gesture That Gains 30M Views

Please teach it forward on purpose!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday May 9th, 2025: Mercy over Mayhem, Empathy over Ego, Kindness over Cruelty- Lessons in Real Leadership for Today from the Pope, Regular Peeps & Animals

This week:

“The thing the church needs most today is the ability to heal wounds and to warm the hearts of the faithful; it needs nearness, proximity.

 I see the church as a field hospital after battle.

 It is useless to ask a seriously injured person if he has high cholesterol and about the level of his blood sugars!

 You have to heal his wounds.

 Then we can talk about everything else.

Heal the wounds, heal the wounds. …

And you have to start from the ground up.”

-Pope Francis

I share his profound wisdom below:
 
“The walls of hospitals have heard more honest prayers than churches…
They have witnessed far more sincere kisses than those in airports…

It is in hospitals that you see a homophobe being saved by a gay doctor.

A privileged doctor saving the life of a beggar…

In intensive care, you see a Jew taking care of a racist…

A police officer and a prisoner in the same room receiving the same care…

A wealthy patient waiting for a liver transplant, ready to receive the organ from a poor donor…

It is in these moments, when the hospital touches the wounds of people, that different worlds intersect according to a divine design.

And in this communion of destinies, we realize that alone, we are nothing.

The absolute truth of people, most of the time, only reveals itself in moments of pain or in the real threat of an irreversible loss.

A hospital is a place where human beings remove their masks and show themselves as they truly are, in their purest essence.

This life will pass quickly, so do not waste it fighting with people.


Do not criticize your body too much.

Do not complain excessively.

Do not lose sleep over bills.

Make sure to hug your loved ones.

Do not worry too much about keeping the house spotless.


Material goods must be earned by each person—do not dedicate yourself to accumulating an inheritance.

You are waiting for too much: Christmas, Friday, next year, when you have money, when love arrives, when everything is perfect…


Listen, perfection does not exist.

A human being cannot attain it because we are simply not made to be fulfilled here.


Here, we are given an opportunity to learn.

So, make the most of this trial of life—and do it now.

Respect yourself, respect others. Walk your own path and let go of the path others have chosen for you.

Respect: do not comment, do not judge, do not interfere.

Love more, forgive more, embrace more, live more intensely!

And leave the rest in the hands of the Creator.”

—Pope Francis

My dear friend Dr. Ken Druck, a highly sought after Mental Health Expert and Mensch, shares his insights, with Drew and me on How to Survive Tragic Losses and How to Cultivate Hope, Meaning, Loving Kindness, Joy, and Compassion.

How We Go On – Dr. Ken Druck’s life’s work helping individuals, families, organizations, communities and nations find the path forward after a loss, change or setback.

  • What’s weighing most heavily on my heart?
  • What’s making my heart sing today?
  • What does today offer me the opportunity to let go of?
  • What can be so grateful for, that I could fall to my knees in gratitude?

“If only I can catch myself…”

Hear the uplifting podcast interview here:

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/25cozv1NAB4lfaRlNCj5x7?si=8acc2b97c5a24eec

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More on Pope Francis’ Impact and Legacy-

Have a heart for those who suffer!

Pope Francis’ Greatest Achievement Was Emphasizing Mercy | TIME

Megaphone Hand, business concept with text Attention Please, vector illustration

Why Do We Dehumanize Ourselves by Being Tone Deaf to the Plight of the Needy and Those That Can’t Speak for Themselves?

The patron saint of animals and ecology brought together science, morality and faith and prompted people across the globe to pay attention to what is happening as the planet continues to heat up!

Why a transformative leader is a protector not an antagonist…

Pope Francis pushed for action on climate change : NPR

According to research, they’ve actually been making sounds this whole time, we’ve just been too hard of hearing to notice.

Plants ‘Scream’ When They’re Cut, We Just Couldn’t Hear It. Until Now.

Even wild animals circle the wagons to protect the vulnerable.

Elephants circle during earthquake at San Diego Zoo Safari Park – NBC 7 San Diego

18-second video from San Diego Zoo launched YouTube 20 years ago – NBC 7 San Diego

Golden nature, frozen artistry and the rhythm of tradition: Picture Award announces winners | Digital Camera World

Please pay attention, take action and preach and pay it forward with kindness, mercy, and grace.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday April 18, 2025: Courage, Forgiveness, Life Satisfaction and the Wonder of Animals

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

A Weekly Dose of Courage with Ryan Berman:

It’s not Humanrude.

It’s not Humanharsh. 
 It’s not Humanevil.

It’s not Humancruel.

It’s not Humanmean.

It’s not Humanhoodwinking.

It’s called Humankind.

In these tricky, turbulent times…

Stay good.
Stay kind. 
Stay even. 
Stay you

Easy to suggest. Currently hard to act on.

Control your controllables. 

It doesn’t mean you should turn off the news — which I have a tendency to do. We should also stay informed.

Know what’s going; on but don’t let politics, the news or the current stock market sink your psyche. 

This doesn’t mean to be tone deaf or to turn the other cheek. 
It means stay even, stay civil, and shoot your shots if it’s aligned with your values. 

Want to protest? Do it. 
Want to use this teaching opportunity for your kids? Do it.
Want to reach out to someone on the other side to understand their POV? Do it. 

We all lose when we lose ourselves in the chaos. 
We all lose when we’re humanrude, humanharsh or humancruel. 

How will you show up?
Why will you show up?
Where will you show up?

If and when you do… 
stay humankind

Jason Mraz- My Kind:

This song will lift you up and bolster your spirits!

Jason Mraz – my kind (Lyrics)

The Rules of Forgiveness with Robin Sharma:

Confucius had it right when he advised “before you go off to seek revenge it’s best to dig two graves.”
Getting brilliant at forgiving those who have wronged and hurt you delivers these benefits to you as a leader, producer, and person:

—you avoid becoming a resentment collector, full of negativity and cynicism.

—you protect the energy needed to get big things done.

 —you live in the present and pursue a richer future rather than staying stuck in the past.

 —you free up a ton of creativity that would be consumed grumbling about what someone did to you.

 —you remain peaceful and helpful instead of obsessing about being mistreated.

 A few of the forgiveness rules that have been super useful to the clients I mentor:

1. Forgiveness isn’t condoning the behavior. No. It’s more about understanding that everyone does the best we can based on how we think. And, as Maya Angelou observed: “If they knew better, they would have done better.” How they behaved made sense to them at the time (read that twice), even if their actions were foolish and hurtful. So, practice the master skill of letting go.

 2. Let success be your confident reply. Staying bitter and stagnant is a violent defeat. What I suggest is to try and use what someone did to you as soil for your growth and fuel for your winning. Let any pain you suffer actually purify you by processing through it so that you become emotionally richer, internally stronger, and personally wiser. And, as best as you can, exploit this newfound clarity, creativity, and maturity to build glorious fortunes of success, beauty, and inner freedom. Let an even more beautiful life be your elegant response.

 3. What’s yours can’t be taken from you. Mom taught me this one and I wrote about the lesson in-depth in my latest book The Wealth Money Can’t Buy. What she taught me is that what’s meant for me can’t be taken from me and if something didn’t work out the way I wished it would have, it just wasn’t meant to be. Allow people to be on their own path and know that what unfolds for them is none of your business. Do your best and trust—with deep faith—that life has your back. And that what appears is always for your fortune, never for your failure.

 4. Keep Death Close [KDC]. Reflecting on how short life really is and the fact that in 100 years, everyone alive today will be dust will give you perspective. A mistreatment that seems so big will begin to look small. You’ll see the value of moving on and letting the hurter deal with their karma. And you’ll be energized to “stick to your knitting” by doing what you know to be right, making excellent daily progress and remembering that good things inevitably happen to people who do great things.

Pets increase life satisfaction as much as marriage or close friendships:
In a world where happiness often feels like a moving target, we constantly seek what brings true contentment.

People turn to careers, families, friendships, pets, and even meditation or travel in the hope of feeling joy and fulfillment in life.

Living with a pet brings more joy to everyday life – Earth.com

A crow’s math skills include geometry:
Crows in a lab were able to distinguish shapes that exhibited right angles, parallel lines, and symmetry, suggesting that, like humans, they have a special ability to perceive geometric regularity.

A crow’s math skills include geometry : NPR

Missing toddler who walked 7 miles through Arizona wilderness led to safety by a dog:
The rancher traced the boy’s steps and discovered that Buford, an Anatolian Pyrenees who normally patrols his land and wards off coyotes, had escorted the 2-year-old for at least a mile.

Missing toddler who walked 7 miles alone through Arizona wilderness led to safety by rancher’s dog

Thanks, this week go to Ryan B, Robin S, and all you kind souls modeling empathy and compassion!

May we all be the person our dog thinks we are…

Pay it forward.

Love,

Neville

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“The greatest threat to our planet is the belief that someone else will save it.”

Your Soul Food for Friday Aug 16, 2024: How to Train and Drain Your Brain

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Neuroscience Says This Is the Easiest Way to Boost Your Mood and Cut Your Risk of Depression
This low-effort, completely free intervention to improve your mental health is backed by new Harvard research.

Neuroscience Says This Is the Easiest Way to Boost Your Mood and Cut Your Risk of Depression | Inc.com

Scientists Picked Apart the Human Brain’s Trash Disposal—and Found Something Incredible
This secret mechanism could lead to major neurological advancements.

Scientists Studied the Human Brain’s Trash Disposal: What They Found (popularmechanics.com)

Crying during the Olympics? You’re not alone. What mental health experts say about fans getting emotional.
Turns out, being a fan is actually good for you.

Crying during the Olympics? You’re not alone. What mental health experts say about fans getting emotional. (yahoo.com)

Stunning photos taken underwater at the Paris Olympics
Athletes captured in underwater moments at the Paris Olympics.

Stunning photos taken underwater at the Paris Olympics – August 7, 2024 | Reuters

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Your Soul Food for Friday June 28, 2024: 3 Pieces of Advice When Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

  • Don’t Let the Future Destroy the Present
  • Don’t Be Too Cynical to Get Involved
  • Be Kind, Even to Your Political Enemies

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He wore a toga and spoke Latin. This ancient philosopher can help you survive the anxiety of the 2024 election:
If you’re agonizing over what might happen in this November’s presidential election, consider the wisdom of ancient Stoic philosophers such as Marcus Aurelius, who offer three pieces of advice that still are relevant today.

He wore a toga and spoke Latin. This ancient philosopher can help you survive the anxiety of the 2024 election | CNN

Billions of people just felt the deadly intensity of climate-fueled heat waves:
Scorching heat across five continents set 1,400 records this week and showed how human-caused global warming has made catastrophic temperatures commonplace.

Billions of people just felt the deadly intensity of climate-fueled heat waves – Red Lake Nation News

Researchers make important discovery that could reduce ER visits by over 60%: ‘The improvements that can be made are really meaningful’:
“We need to tie those investments to public health outcomes.” We all know how relieving a good shade tree can be on a 100-degree day. But what if trees could dramatically reduce heat-related illnesses and deaths in our world’s hottest cities? Researchers recently published findings in the International Journal of Biometeorology about how increased tree cover and reflective surfaces could reduce emergency room visits in Los Angeles. The study is critical because rising temperatures impact human health.

Researchers make important discovery that could reduce ER visits by over 60%: ‘The improvements that can be made are really meaningful’ (thecooldown.com)

Researchers develop method of desalination that could save millions of lives: ‘A paradigm shift is essential to sustain human life’:
On a large scale, desalination is a promising method to provide abundant fresh water. Australian researchers have announced a breakthrough in desalination science that has the potential to provide millions of people with clean water. The experts from the Australian National University are perfecting an alternative to creating fresh water from seawater that’s more cost-efficient and uses less energy than reverse osmosis and other common methods.

Researchers develop method of desalination that could save millions of lives: ‘A paradigm shift is essential to sustain human life’ (thecooldown.com)

How to Rehydrate Quickly When You’re So, So Hot:
Because heat illness is no joke.

The Best Way to Rehydrate Quickly When You’re Super Hot and Sweaty | SELF

Polar Bear Tries To Get Attention From Fishing Ship. When Crew Notices, They Lower A Rescue Vessel:
The small village of Kaktovik, Alaska, receives a grand arrival of polar bears every summer. Trained Inuit guides take tour groups on a whimsical boat ride to photograph these bears up close and personal. With a life on the line, both visitors and locals alike scrambled to save a polar bear.

Polar Bear Tries To Get Attention From Fishing Ship. When Crew Notices, They Lower A Rescue Vessel – Buzznet

Stay Cool!

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Your Soul Food for Friday June 14, 2024: Stay in the Positive!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Us San Diegans Are Lucky!

4 of the places with the world’s longest-living people all have this in common:
“It may be the tranquilizing effect of water, or it may be that the climate is moderated because of the water,” says longevity expert Dan Buettner.

4 Blue Zones are located near water: ‘It seems to make us happier’ (cnbc.com)

That Said We Need to Protect and Preserve Our Water!

You Might Cry When You Read This Study About What’s Happening to the Oceans:
Beware the three horsemen of the ocean apocalypse: extreme heat, acidification, and deoxygenation. A new study, published in the journal AGU Advances, has shown how this “triple threat” has drastically intensified in the past several decades, pushing our oceans ever closer to the brink. And what’s on the other side of it?

You Might Cry When You Read This Study About What’s Happening to the Oceans (futurism.com)

‘A great sadness’: Venezuela is first Andean country to lose of all its glaciers:
Scientists explain the loss of the Humboldt Glacier, the last in the Sierra Nevada, which they believe makes the South American country the first in modern history to lose all its glaciers.

‘A great sadness’: Venezuela is first Andean country to lose all of its glaciers (nbcnews.com)

All These Stressors Messing with Your Sleep Hygiene?

How to Get Back to Sleep After Waking Up at Night:
Even people who have no trouble falling asleep can struggle with night wakings.

How to Get Back to Sleep After Waking Up at Night | TIME

And Speaking of Exercise-

Your body needs three forms of movement every week:
Movement is movement, right? Not exactly. Here’s what your body is looking for in addition to your morning walk or yoga session, according to experts.

Your body needs three forms of movement every week | CNN

Stay in the Positive!

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Your Soul Food for Friday May 10th 2024: How Can You Not Be Blown Away by These Amazing Animals

This week: These Amazing Animals!

If some of these stories don’t blow you away, you might want to check your pulse 😊

Waay better than doom scrolling…

Play, healing, tool usage, language, and friendship!

A New Declaration of Animal Consciousness
A group of prominent scientists believes fruit flies, fish, and mollusks might experience pain and pleasure. April 27, 2024, this article was originally published by Quanta Magazine. In 2022, researchers at the Bee Sensory and Behavioral Ecology Lab at Queen Mary University of London observed bumblebees doing something remarkable: The diminutive, fuzzy creatures were engaging in activity that could only be described as play. Given small wooden balls, the bees pushed them around and rotated them.

A New Declaration of Animal Consciousness – The Atlantic

Orangutan heals face wound using medicinal plant in Indonesia in documented first:
A Sumatran orangutan named Rakus was seen using a medicinal plant to heal a facial wound at an Indonesian research site.

Orangutan seen healing face wound with medicinal plant for first time (usatoday.com)

10 animals that use tools in surprising and clever ways – from primates and dolphins to birds and fish:
It is not just humans that regularly use tools to solve problems and make our lives easier. Other animals do it too!

10 animals that use tools in surprising and clever ways – from primates and dolphins to birds and fish – Discover Wildlife 10 animals that use tools

Sperm whales communicate through a ‘complex phonetic alphabet,’ study finds:
Researchers analyzed the codas of approximately 60 sperm whales.

Sperm whales communicate through a ‘complex phonetic alphabet,’ study finds – ABC News (go.com)

Seal Kept Poking Diver’s Arm Until He Finally Realized What Was Going On, Here’s What Happened:
One experienced diver and his friend had a once-in-a-lifetime encounter with some seals. They were even lucky enough to capture the moment on film!

This Diver Couldn’t Figure Out What A Seal Was Trying To Tell Him – Buzznet

Please pay it forward and love those wondrous creatures that we share this tiny blue planet with!

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Happy Soul Food Friday for the Weekend before Earth Day 2024

Happy Soul Food Friday for the Weekend before Earth Day 2024

This week:

Which Wolf Will You Feed?

We have important decisions to make that will affect the rest of our lives on earth and those that come after us.

What choice are you making and why it matters?

(14) Which Wolf Will You Feed? Or, the unedited story of the two wolves | LinkedIn

Let’s Unleash our Creativity with the mindset, heart set and skill set to change what we measure and manage-

What Would a Sustainable, Universally Beneficial Economy Look Like?

Are you willing to co-create a new model to save our planet and uplift humanity?

What happens when we stop our structural dependency on growth, we have seemingly become addicted to

Here is a different model to reimagine our future and reignite your hope for a better future!

Kate Raworth: A healthy economy should be designed to thrive, not grow | TED Talk

Opinion: When celebrating Earth Day, don’t forget our coast and the ocean
Make a difference: Protect, restore and take care of the only home we have

Opinion: When celebrating Earth Day, don’t forget our coast and the ocean – The San Diego Union-Tribune (sandiegouniontribune.com)

Why does this matter and who gives a $#!+?

Ten photographs that made the world wake up to climate change:
Award-winning photographers Paul Nicklen and Cristina Mittermeier choose 10 powerful photos that have changed our attitudes to climate change.

Ten photographs that made the world wake up to climate change | CNN

Calling Our Times the ‘Anthropocene Epoch’ Matters Dearly to You:
The name means human activity is profoundly changing our environment, and you’ll have to plan for those changes

Calling Our Times the ‘Anthropocene Epoch’ Matters Dearly to You | Scientific American

The Foods the World Will Lose to Climate Change:
Droughts, heat, and extreme weather are pushing crops to their limits. The race is on to innovate faster than the Earth warms.

The Foods the World Will Lose to Climate Change | WIRED

These five species may vanish. If they do, we’re all in trouble.
One animal purifies our water. Another provides a vital food source for three other species. This photo essay from Joel Sartore shows how saving one animal saves so many more.

These 5 lesser-known species may vanish. If they do, we’re all in trouble. (nationalgeographic.com)

Everyone says trees are good for us. This scientist wants to prove it.
An ongoing science experiment involves nearly 8,000 trees and shrubs in southern Louisville and health data from nearly 500 residents.

A scientist in Louisville is compiling data on trees and human health – The Washington Post

People stunned to learn plants ‘scream’ when you cut them:
But you’ll probably never hear it

People stunned to learn plants ‘scream’ when you cut them (ladbible.com)

What a Living Whale is Worthin the Fight against Climate Change:

Ralph Chami: translating the value of nature into dollars and cents in the fight : NPR

To know and not to do, is not to know…

Please think global, act local and remember action precedes motivation!

EVERY day is Earth Day…

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Neville

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