Your Soul Food for Friday June 12, 2026: The Six Guardians of Health and Wellness- Keep Up The PACE!

If you can’t tell, each week I reflect and share something that I am personally working on or struggling with (like sleep hygiene) or noticing with alacrity  (like the importance of art and culture) in our world.

This week I dug into the oldies but goldies file and revisited something I curated many moons ago and updated it.

Hopefully, this week’s missive is still timely and resonates with you…

You are what you eat.

Both disease and energy come through food.

Unfortunately, most of us eat for the sake of eating not for the sake of health.

Our food, from a holistic perspective, serves two primary functions.

The first is to nourish and give us energy (assimilate).

The second is to clean out and detoxify (eliminate).

All foods eaten for health and not just to indulge the taste buds should aid in either or both these functions.

Typically, eating natural unrefined foods provides the optimum source of nutrition and energy.

Eating “food without faces” is often suggested for a long and healthy life.

Unless you have an eating disorder, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to eat less.

(Systematic under-eating)

For the average person in western cultures today, only one fourth of what we eat actually helps us.

The rest helps the doctor! (No offense my dear doctor friends, but a bonus for you below…)

Overeating simply overtaxes our system, wastes valuable natural resources, and creates other health problems down the road.

Do you know there are as many starving people in the world as there are overweight people?

Finally, it is not just what you eat or how much you eat, but HOW you eat that makes a big difference.

So many of us eat junk, eat too much and, if you are like me, eat too fast. Learn to take time to enjoy the process of eating.

Savor every mouthful.

Be grateful you are not one of the people on this planet today that is hungry, malnourished, or starving to death.

Half our planet is undernourished!

Mindful eating counts.

Don’t put another mouthful in until the previous mouthful has been completely swallowed.

Take time to make the process of eating a joyous, even meditative experience.

This conscious eating honors the food, appreciates the chef, embraces the life energy made available through the meal and ultimately provides more than calories, protein, carbs, fats, vitamins, minerals, antioxidants etc.-it provides life itself.

Try changing one thing about what, how and how much you eat today and notice the difference…

Usually, when we think of our living environment, we think of the place where you live.

Your living environment, however, includes the place and CONDITIONS under which you live.

It is not enough to have a clean, bright, airy home or apartment in outer harmony with nature in perfect feng shui alignment, if the inner environment is one of stress, tension, and discord.  

Creating an environment of support, comfort, and inner safety can do wonders for the health and well-being for all members of the household.

See if you can identify some things you can do to make your living environment a sanctuary from the stress and tension in and around you.

Commit to making your living environment the best you can!

All exercise is good, but not all exercise is good for all people!

Today, everyone seems to be touting the benefits of exercise for strengthening the body, relaxing the mind, reducing heart disease, and even offsetting depression.

Exercise can be broken down into vigorous, moderate, and gentle forms.

Recent studies have validated the dramatic benefits of even a little exercise on our health, with less dramatic advantages of intense exercise over longer periods.

If a little is good, a lot must be better, doesn’t hold true when it comes to exercise, although this varies from individual to individual.

The old adage of no pain, no gain is also vigorously disputed in the current literature, which validates what holistic practitioners have been saying for thousands of years:

Involve yourself in types of exercise you enjoy.

Enjoy the process of exercising not just the end result.

Exercising for admirable abs or bodacious buns is probably not worth it if you don’t enjoy the process.

In fact, it might be killing you!

So much for the killer workout… It might be doing just that!

It seems that certain types of exercise do suit most people.

These include-walking, swimming, yoga, and tai chi.

Yoga and tai chi emphasize the flow of life energy in the whole-body releasing toxins and creating a sense of wellbeing.

Maintaining flexibility and range of motion have long been key elements in developing total health-so stretch yourself every day!

Regardless of the form of exercise or cross-training regimen you select, make sure you learn, practice, and emphasize the proper breathing method.

The benefits of using the proper breathing method cannot be overstated and makes a tremendous difference in the process of exercising and the ensuring results.

Attend to ki, chi, prana, life force or whatever you choose to call it.

One of the most sorely neglected aspects of wellness, pun duly intended, is rest.

In today’s fast-paced society, most of us simply do not get enough rest. The right amount of rest is defined by your ability to recoup energy and repair damaged tissue.

Depending on your lifestyle and disposition, the amount of rest you need will vary. If you are involved in a lot of hard labor or intense exercise you will obviously need more rest than those whose lifestyles are more sedentary.

But… “rest should not turn into rust!”

Living in the urban jungle, we often lose our connection to nature. For countless generations, our ancestors lived in balance with nature, and recognized and celebrated the interconnectedness and interdependence with all of nature.

Reawakening our primal links to Mother Earth, Father Sky, Brother Sun and Sister Moon reminds us of one simple fact:

Nature is full of energy!

It is yours for the taking (Shakuraki is a term the Japanese use about how we can borrow energy from nature) and there is an abundance of it so take as much as you need!

Sunshine is a natural source of Vitamin D.

Sunshine is also a natural germicide and insecticide.

Fresh air purifies the organs and sharpens the senses.

We take in air through the lungs but also through the skin.

Pure water flushes us inside and out.

Drinking seven glasses of clean water a day is excellent for us.

Getting in cold water (hydrotherapy) causes the capillaries to shrink on the outside and forces the blood to be shunted to the heart, thereby cleansing and tonifying the circulatory system.

Spending time outdoors in communion with nature can do wonders for one’s state of mind.

Get out your calendar right now and block off some time in nature today, this week and this month.

 Heck the weather is wonderful…

It is well known that the mind governs the body and the body affects the mind. In western psychology, we talk about a psychophysiological isomorphism– a one-to-one relationship between body and mind.

In today’s society of negats and negaholics, one must put on the armor of one’s own positive thoughts. It takes practice to re-program ourselves toward positive thinking.

Sadly, according to scientists, we give ourselves thousands of negative messages each day.

Worrying is nothing but negative goal setting.

And 90% of the things we worry about-NEVER HAPPEN!

Positive autosuggestion takes practice.

We all get to choose whether we want to elevate or degrade our mental attitude.

Being grateful, practicing forgiveness, rewarding yourself daily, laughter and humor, play and recreation, meditation, and prayer, practicing self-love, using affirmations, developing your own self-healing script, and practicing positive self-talk are some powerful ways to change your attitude and keep the change.

As a Sensei of ours would say, a sense of pleasure, accomplishment, contentment, and enthusiasm for life (PACE) are some key indicators that you are on your way to cultivating and developing the right mental attitude.

Drill for skill.

Practice like you want to perform.

What you do-you become.

Repetition is the key to anchoring a new behavior, attitude, or skill.

With the six guardians mentioned above, you are well on your way to creating a healthy life.

sow a thought-reap an action

sow an action-reap a habit

sow a habit-reap a character

sow a character-reap a destiny!

And lastly a bonus after dissing my doc friends 😊

Doctor set out to find what helps people ‘defy disease’—here’s what she found

Be well and keep up the PACE. You’ve got this!

Love,

Neville

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Podcast Episode: Mind, Nature, And Meaning

Pip: Nature as medicine, optimism as brain food, and art as the engine of democracy — Happy Soul Food Friday! is out here writing the prescription the rest of the internet forgot to fill.

Mara: Soul Food Friday covers a lot of ground this week — from the neuroscience of optimism and the world’s oldest doctor’s rules for living well, to the civic case for arts funding and what creativity actually looks like in practice. Let’s start with the wellness territory.

Nature, Optimism, and the Rules for Living Well

Mara: The thread running through this week’s wellness posts is deceptively simple: the things that keep us healthy — nature, optimism, purpose — are rarely what conventional medicine trains doctors to prescribe.

Pip: And on the nature side, the post leads with a WBUR story about Dr. Susan Abookire, who is trying to change exactly that. The post frames her work this way: “Doctors spend years becoming experts in how the body works, how it can break down and how to recognize and treat various illnesses. Their training rarely involves what’s known as nature-based medicine.”

Mara: So the upshot is that a whole dimension of preventive care is simply missing from medical education, and one doctor in Boston has made closing that gap her mission.

Pip: The optimism piece adds a striking data point — a Harvard study finding that optimism may lower dementia risk by fifteen percent. And the world’s oldest doctor, Howard Tucker, who practiced until 103, kept it even simpler: his three rules for a long, happy life are, by his own description, very simple.

Mara: Which is maybe the most useful thing any of these posts says — that the evidence keeps pointing back to the unglamorous basics. That hands us right to the bigger civic question: what happens when we defund the structures that support those basics?

Art Is the Engine, Not the Ornament

Pip: The civic arts post opens with a provocation — that budget decisions reveal not just fiscal priorities but values, imagination, and responsibility to future generations. The frame here is San Diego, but the argument is universal.

Mara: The post draws the historical line directly: “For centuries, societies have understood that arts, culture, and the humanities are not decorative luxuries but foundational civic infrastructure.” Ancient Greeks, Aztec empires, Renaissance cities — the post argues that every era of civic flourishing invested heavily in creative life.

Pip: And the consequence is concrete: San Diego’s arts organizations serve more than a million residents annually, providing after-school programs, mental health support, and economic activity. Defunding them isn’t a budget trim — it’s removing infrastructure.

Mara: The post pairs that civic argument with a piece on individual creativity — a researcher who spent forty years studying highly creative people and identified four phrases that stifle creative thinking cold. The implication is that creativity isn’t a talent reserved for artists; it’s a habit anyone can protect or accidentally kill.

Pip: There’s also an 18-year-old named Ayra Satheesh who just won the European Earth Prize for an invention tackling microplastics. Which is what imagination actually looks like when it isn’t being talked out of itself by the wrong four phrases.

Mara: The Einstein epigraph the post opens with earns its place by the end: logic gets you from A to B, but imagination — and the civic structures that nurture it — takes you somewhere worth going.


Pip: Nature, optimism, art, a 103-year-old doctor, and a teenage inventor — not a bad week for the soul.

Mara: The through-line is that the things we tend to treat as extras — green space, cultural funding, creative habits — keep showing up in the evidence as essentials. Something to carry into next week.

Your Soul Food for June 5, 2026: This week is All About Sleep! “I finally got eight hours of sleep. It took me three days but whatever.”

As high achievers we privilege performance but don’t invest enough time understanding the importance of rest and recovery, leading to sleep hygiene issues for so many of us.

Here are a few good articles on why good sleep matters, how to fall back to sleep when you wake up and can’t seem to fall back asleep, the military sleep method to fall asleep fast, and the sleep issue that often goes undiagnosed, but can adversely impact your health.

Poor sleep may disrupt the brain’s nightly cleaning cycle – Earth.com

The brain’s night shift: How sleep, waste clearance and dementia may be linked

How to fall back asleep at 3 a.m.: A brain researcher’s 5-minute trick that works fast | Tom’s Guide

Military Sleep Method: Technique and Benefits

Millions Have This Sleep Issue — It’s Now Linked to Declining Muscle Quality
And up to 90% of cases go undiagnosed.

Millions Have This Sleep Issue — It’s Now Linked To Declining Muscle Quality

Rest Well!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday May 29, 2026: Nature as Medicine, How Optimism Helps Your Brain Stay Healthy and 3 Rules for a Happy Life from the World’s Oldest Doctor

This week:

  • Nature as Medicine
  • How Optimism Helps Your Brain Stay Healthy
  • And 3 Rules for a Happy Life from the World’s Oldest Doctor


Doctors spend years becoming experts in how the body works, how it can break down and how to recognize and treat various illnesses. Their training rarely involves what’s known as “nature-based medicine.” Dr. Susan Abookire has made it her mission to change that.

In Boston, doctors try a dose of nature as medicine | WBUR News


I didn’t know I was doing exactly what Harvard researchers say makes your brain a lot healthier. May 4, 2026 Here’s some good news. A few years ago, when I was feeling a bit down, I started an experiment that turned into a weekly newsletter feature that I now call Big Optimism. The premise is simple: I look back in history and find days that seemed ordinary at the time — or even bad — that turned out to be the quiet starting point for remarkable things.

Optimism May Lower Dementia Risk by 15%, New Study Finds


Dr. Howard Tucker left behind an impressive legacy. At 103, he was named the oldest doctor in the world — and quite possibly the happiest. Shortly before passing away, he shared his rules for living a long, happy, and healthy life. They’re very simple, he says.

At 103 years old, I’m the ‘world’s oldest doctor’: My 3 rules for a long, happy life are simple

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday May 22, 2026: “Art is not the decoration of democracy; it is the Engine!”

This week:

Across the United States, cities are making budget decisions that reveal far more than their fiscal priorities. They reveal their values, their imagination, and their sense of responsibility to future generations.

For centuries, societies have understood that arts, culture, and the humanities are not decorative luxuries but foundational civic infrastructure. The ancient Greeks embedded theater, philosophy, and public art into the daily life of their cities because they believed that a healthy democracy required imagination, debate, and shared cultural rituals. Aztec empires and Renaissance cities invested heavily in artists and scholars because they recognized that creativity fuels innovation, economic vitality, and civic pride. Today, global cities that lead in technology, science, and economic competitiveness are the same cities that invest deeply in cultural life.

What does it say about a city’s leadership when it places zero value on the artistic and cultural contributions that shape civic identity? What does it say when we ignore decades of evidence that arts and culture are economic drivers, public health strategies, and youth development lifelines? What does it say when we invest more in law enforcement than in expression, more in reaction than in prevention?

San Diego’s arts and culture organizations from youth theaters and community festivals to cultural centers and museums serve more than a million residents annually. They provide after‑school programs, mental health support, intergenerational learning, and spaces for young people to explore identity and belonging. They anchor neighborhoods, attract tourism, and generate economic activity.

At Our Peril: Ignoring the Canary in the Coal Mine of Arts and Culture Defunding | Voice of San Diego

Oh Yes, You Are Creative!


Anthony Fredericks has written over 180 books, two on creativity. He says that these four common phrases can stop creative thinking cold.

I’ve studied highly creative people for 40 years—4 phrases they never say

Creativity Fuels Innovation!


Ayra Satheesh has been crowned the European winner for the 2026 Earth Prize for her work on tackling microplastics.

Meet the 18-year-old whose prize-winning invention takes on the microplastics emergency | Euronews

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday May 15, 2026: What is Your Definition of Success? Does Character Matter?

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Let’s run a thought experiment…

Imagine a world in which organizations are typified by selfishness, manipulation, secrecy, and a single-minded focus on winning.

Imagine that members of such organizations are characterized by gaming the system, cheating is normalized, the end justifies the means as is treating people in the system as dispensable and replaceable, leading to distrust, anxiety, self-absorption, fear, burnout, and feelings of abuse.

For the sake of contrast, now imagine another world in which organizations are typified by the values they embody, character mattering, and winning honorably both on and off the field, through collaboration, virtuousness, vitality, and meaningfulness.

Imagine that members of such organizations are characterized by trustworthiness, resilience, wisdom, humility, and high levels of positive energy. Social relationships and interactions are characterized by compassion, loyalty, honesty, respect, and forgiveness with theories of excellence exploring, transcendence, positive deviance, extraordinary performance, and positive spirals of flourishing.

So, which definition of success do you think most of us are striving for?

I have been practicing and teaching traditional martial arts focused on self-development through self-defense for the last 43 years teaching at UC San Diego. Here, I have worked on creating a community of practice, where the biggest opponent at the end of the day, is not out there, but in here.

Those you train with are there to help you grow, and yes even the instructors are lifelong learners, honing their craft and developing themselves and others through the student/teacher relationship.

Winning the national championships in traditional karate several times and that “success” allowing me to compete and place in the top three in the world, representing the United States in two world championships and the Pan American games is interestingly not the high-water mark of my training.

It’s growing people who understand the importance of character.

Here there is an ascendancy of winning from best to worst:

  • Honorable Win
  • Honorable Loss
  • Dishonorable Win
  • Dishonorable Loss

Why?

When you are late you are prone to make an excuse or tell a small (white) lie to save face.

Telling a small lie is the gateway drug to telling a bigger lie which can make cheating feel justified and next thing you know you have normalized, “if you are not cheating, you are not trying!”

Our self-talk is a powerful determinant of who we are and what we become.

Teach your children & parents well, do good work, and see you next week!

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the First Full Week in May 2026: May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and here is a fun way to make every day in May count!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

As we enter the first full week in May let’s practice some “enlightened self-interest” and invest in our mental health and wellbeing.

The Big 5:

  • Exercising
  • Socializing
  • Learning long into later life
  • Eating a healthy diet
  • Sleepingenough

This year’s theme — More Good Days, Together — encourages us all to reflect on what a “good” day looks like, both for ourselves, and for our communities. Together, we can use that insight to connect people to the right support at the right time, and shape advocacy, education, and community engagement to make more good days possible for all.

Mental Health Month 2026 | Mental Health America

Here is a fun way to make every day in May count!

Enjoy this Mental Well-Being Resource Calendar:

May Mental Well-Being Resource Calendar – John W Brick Foundation

The Surprising Science Linking Your Heart & Mental Health
A growing body of research shows the heart and mind are intrinsically connected, driving a new functional approach to longevity that builds resilience across both systems.

A New Approach To Longevity: Treating The Heart And Mind Together | mindbodygreen

Harvard Research Says This Is the Secret to a Happy Life. Neuroscience Confirms It, After 25 Years
Decades of data. One simple answer. Propose a toast, and maybe say a little prayer, for 77 elderly people who agreed to donate their brains to science after they died. Because they chose to do so might lead to real benefits for the rest of us. These 77 were part of a group of 290 people who have participated in the Northwestern University Super Aging Program since 2000 — a 25-year investigation.

Brain Health Tips Backed by Harvard and Northwestern Research

Older people with the healthiest brains have this one thing in common
The secret of so-called ‘superagers.

How to keep your brain younger as you age

Thanks, this week go to Dr. Paul C for the wellbeing calendar!

Please pay it forward with purpose!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for May 1st, 2026, the Flower Moon today, the Splendor of Nature and last call for Joy Jam May 9th!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

After enduring a month of rain (April), we are now able to enjoy the gorgeous blooming flowers.

This full moon is all about reaping the benefits of your hard work—and releasing anything that might be preventing your own growth.

Join us for a communing that will catalyze our well-being on May 9th.

Commune with nature right here in San Diego County and enjoy the flowers!

May you flower and bloom this May Day!

Last Call for Joy Jam next Saturday May 9th in Encinitas!

I don’t know if you have noticed, but we are in dire need of the 51st state in the union, the state of Joy!

This will not be created by government for the people.

This will be created by our own actions as the people!

If you are like me and could use a bit more joy in your life and your community, I strongly encourage you to sign up for this one-of-a-kind family-friendly, pay what you want experience.

The antidote for Collective Heart Failure is our community gathering in presence with love, joy, and care. Chance may favor the prepared mind, but Joy favors the prepared heart.

Let’s give Father Profit a break and Mother Earth a chance as we recently celebrated Earth Day and now celebrate May Day!

We already have 200 joy-filled people signed up and are almost sold out, so if this vibe resonates, it’s now or never!

Get Tickets – JOY JAM – Seaside Center for Spiritual Living

The Full Flower Moon in Scorpio Is Coming: Everything You Need to Know
Today, May 1, we will experience the full moon in Scorpio. Also known as the Flower Moon, May’s first full moon will be both empowering and celebratory.

Here’s what you should know about this impactful spring full moon.

The Full Flower Moon in Scorpio Is Coming: Everything You Need to Know

Here’s What Spending 20 Minutes Outside Every Morning Does to Your Brain
The morning habit that costs nothing—and does more for your brain than you might think.

Here’s What Spending 20 Minutes Outside Every Morning Does to Your Brain

We just got back from a Rhine River Cruise, including an inspiring visit to the Keukenhof Gardens in Amsterdam at the peak of tulip season.

Check out this video and see what nature’s splendor looks like:

Tulip fields near Amsterdam in Holland – Tulip Festival Amsterdam

More pics here:

Keukenhof Gardens (Amsterdam, Holland) – Opening hours, prices

Peak bloom arrives at Carlsbad Flower Fields
The Flower Fields at Carlsbad Ranch has reached peak bloom, with nearly 80 million Giant Tecolote Ranunculus flowers covering 55 acres of hillside, offering visitors a limited window to catch the fields at their most colorful from April 6 to April 20

Peak bloom reached at Carlsbad’s Flower Fields

Here is where you can get your tickets:

Home – The Flower Fields

An extraordinary number of flowers are brightening roadsides and trails right now, transforming the desert’s tawny browns and beiges into a vibrant tapestry of color.

It’s an ideal time to plan a trip to see lupine, desert lily, primrose, and poppies in bloom.

Where to See Desert Wildflowers in California Right Now | Visit California

Please pay it forward with joy and love!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Earth Week 2026: “The greatest threat to our planet is the belief that someone else will save it.”

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Let’s give Father Profit a break and Mother Earth a chance!

  • 650-foot mega-tsunami sends seismic waves around the world for 9 days
  • Earth being ‘pushed beyond its limits’ as energy imbalance reaches record high
  • Nearly half of migratory species in decline as UN summit opens
  • 28 Things that are actively destroying society and making everyone’s lives worse, but for some reason we don’t want to talk about
  • Live long and prosper – in San Diego County, life expectancy outpaces California, US
  • Peak bloom arrives at Carlsbad Flower Fields
  • Groundbreaking study finds a natural way to fight climate change
  • An ancient Maya ‘codex’ keeps predicting future events with eerie accuracy
  • The best photos from NASA’s first moon mission in more than 50 years

                          + Last chance to sign up for the Joy Jam on May 9th

           650-foot mega-tsunami sends seismic waves around the world for 9 days

Local Yokels- Last chance to sign up for the Joy Jam:

If you are in town on May 9th and need some joy in your life and your community, I strongly encourage you to sign up for this one-of-a-kind family-friendly experience.

The antidote for Collective Heart Failure is our community gathering in presence with love, joy, and care. Chance may favor the prepared mind, but Joy favors the prepared heart.

Let’s give Father Profit a break and Mother Earth a chance!

Already sold over 100 tickets so if this resonates, please sign up asap as it will likely fill up…

https://joyjam.communalspaces.org

Earth being ‘pushed beyond its limits’ as energy imbalance reaches record high:
State of the Climate report finds Earth’s energy has moved dangerously out of balance, with oceans absorbing vast majority of trapped heat.

Earth being ‘pushed beyond its limits’ as energy imbalance reaches record high | Oceans | The Guardian

Nearly half of migratory species in decline as UN summit opens:
A UN summit on migratory species opens in Brazil on Monday as scientists warn that the long journeys of whales, fish, birds and other animals are being disrupted by climate change and human activity – with risks for ecosystems, food supplies and coastal economies.

Nearly half of migratory species in decline as UN summit opens – RFI

28 Things That Are Actively Destroying Society and Making Everyone’s Lives Worse, But for Some Reason We Don’t Want to Talk About:

And many of these are related to how we treat this tiny blue planet and all sentient beings!
“The number of Americans who lack human empathy is growing significantly, and it’s being encouraged.”

Uncomfortable Truths We Need To Start Talking About

But there is some good news too!

Live long and prosper – in San Diego County, life expectancy outpaces California, US:
A child born in San Diego in 2024 is expected to live into his or her 80s, but community and ethnicity have an impact too.

Long life – in San Diego County, life expectancy outpaces California, US

Peak bloom arrives at Carlsbad Flower Fields:
The Flower Fields at Carlsbad Ranch has reached peak bloom, with nearly 80 million Giant Tecolote Ranunculus flowers covering 55 acres of hillside, offering visitors a limited window to catch the fields at their most colorful from April 6 to April 20.

Peak bloom reached at Carlsbad’s Flower Fields

Groundbreaking study finds a natural way to fight climate change:
This first-of-its-kind study found beavers have a surprisingly efficient method of safely storing carbon dioxide.

Groundbreaking climate change study says beavers have big impact

Something Old…

An ancient Maya ‘codex’ keeps predicting future events with eerie accuracy:
The Maya civilization is known for its art and architecture. But as we decipher their surviving cultural relics, we’re discovering Maya astronomy was even more advanced than we had imagined.

An ancient Maya ‘codex’ keeps predicting future events with eerie accuracy | BBC Science Focus Magazine

And Something New…

The best photos from NASA’s first moon mission in more than 50 years:
The Artemis II astronauts concluded their record-breaking 10-day journey on Friday with a smooth splashdown in the Pacific Ocean.

The best Artemis II photos after NASA’s first moon mission in over 50 years

Please take care of Mother Earth and one another!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for April 17, 2026: Why the Best Leaders Talk About Love and Why You MUST Keep Your Love Alive!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Why the Best Leaders Talk About Love:

For decades, I have been signing my emails, “love, Neville”

Periodically, I have got some flak for that.

Could this put you at risk for sexual harassment?

You might be signaling the wrong thing to someone, who doesn’t know you better!

You get the drill…

Alternatively, I am convinced that when we can make the shift from all “head”– smarts and wisdom, to incorporating “heart” – empathy, compassion, love, and kindness, we show up better and connect more authentically with everyone we meet!

Love at work is another level.

My longtime friend and colleague Steve Farber, bestselling author, coach, keynote speaker, fine musician and downright good guy, took this head on, many moons ago.

He has a new book coming out, The Radical Promise with the pioneering authors of one of the seminal book on leadership, The Leadership Challenge ( Barry Posner and James Kouzes) so be on the lookout for that:

Steve Farber: Top Motivational Leadership Speaker

My brother Moshe Engelberg also has held this space with courage and grace for decades and still carries the torch.

Check out his work and weekly Wednesday missives here:

Amare Leadership – Leading with Love

Here are two Great Articles:

One from the legendary John Spence

Why the Best Leaders Talk About Love – John Spence

And an Inc article from Moshe:

Love-Powered Leadership: An Underutilized Competitive Edge

Today, Love is both ancient wisdom and the latest thing!

Enjoy and Keep Your Love Alive!

Heart – Love Alive (Official Video)

Love,

Neville

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