Your Soul Food for March 15, 20024: Movement as Medicine so Use it or Lose it!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week: Movement as Medicine

If it’s easy to do, it’s easy not to do…

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Tai Chi Beat Moderate Exercise at Lowering Blood Pressure in Study:
A year after the study began, those who performed tai chi saw greater reduction in their blood pressure than those who followed an aerobic exercise program.

Tai chi beat moderate exercise at lowering blood pressure in study – The Washington Post

Qigong 101: A Beginner’s Guide to the Art of Cultivating Vital Energy:
This ancient Chinese practice promotes harmony of body, mind, and spirit.

How Qigong Promotes Harmony of Mind, Body, and Spirit (verywellmind.com)

The 14 Best Stretches For Releasing Tight, Achy Hips STAT:
They’re a great emotional release, too.

14 Hip-Opening Stretches & Why The Hips Store Trauma | mindbodygreen

I completed a 7-day posture challenge and honestly. I’m shocked at what it’s taught me about my body:
Plus, some tips on how to permanently improve your posture.

I Completed A 7-Day Posture Challenge – & Learnt A Lot | Marie Claire UK

Please move it forward!

Love,

Neville

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“Thomas Edison dreamed of a lamp that could be operated by electricity, began where he stood to put his dream into action, and despite more than ten thousand failures, he stood by that dream until he made it a physical reality. Practical dreamers do not quit.”

— Napoleon Hill:

Your Soul Food for Friday March 8, 2024: The Power of Music!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

We finally know why live music makes us so emotional:
Hearing live music tugs at our heartstrings more than a recording, probably because it increases activity in an emotion-processing region in our brain

We finally know why live music makes us so emotional | New Scientist

This 1 Hobby Is Great for An Aging Brain, According to A New Study
And no one is too old to pick it up.

Playing Music Can Help Aging Brain Health, Study Says | HuffPost Life

Filmmaker Bao Nguyen on His Triumphant ‘The Greatest Night in Pop’
We asked, “The Greatest Night in Pop” director Bao Nguyen everything you would want to know about “We are the World.”

Bao Nguyen Interview: On Netflix’s The Greatest Night in Pop (uproxx.com)

Classical musicians got stuck in traffic with their instruments, and there was only one thing to do:
A blocked motorway becomes a concert hall, as a classical violinist and musician friends take out their instruments to help entertain stationary drivers.

Classical musicians got stuck in traffic with their instruments, and there was… – Classic FM

Please play it forward!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday of Leap Year Week 2024: Health Trend and Future Predictions, Reverse to Do List Method and Wildlife Photographer of the Year Winner

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

From sleep hygiene to boosting energy naturally, here are the big 2024 health trend predictions:
Nutritionist and author Clemence Cleave shares how to improve gut health through lifestyle and diet.

2024’s Health And Wellness Trends | olivemagazine

Arthur C Clarke predicts the future- from 1964 – Enjoy!!

I Tried the “Reverse To-Do List” Method and I’ve Never Been Less Stressed
I Started a Reverse To-Do List and It Saves So Much Stress | Apartment Therapy

Wildlife Photographer of the Year People’s Choice Award winner
A stunning image of a young polar bear drifting to sleep wins a wildlife-photographer competition

Wildlife Photographer of the Year People’s Choice Award winner (bbc.com)

Thanks this week go to Larry H for 5 miles and Ted D for Arthur C.

Love all,

Neville

Your Soul Food for Feb 9 – 23, 2024: Digital and Body Detox, Compassion Fatigue and More…

Happy Soul Food Friday!

Over the next couple of weeks, I am going to try a digital detox, so I will catch you on the flip side.

Meanwhile do know you are enough, beware of compassion fatigue, enjoy the poem and humor, and consider unsubscribing from everything that doesn’t feed your soul.

Joy is non-negotiable!

Love,

Neville

“Enough” by Andrea Gibson:

Last night I painted a purple tree on my bedroom wall

I woke up this morning in a pile of leaves

The color of a million different faces

Thinking of that hand

That planted the seed 

Of the family tree

That grew us all

And how each one of us

Will one day fall back to the ground

This morning

I was listening to my heart pound

Knowing with every single beat

That a thousand other hearts

Were falling asleep forever

On a day they never thought they would

And I know there are tribes of aborigines

That decide how and when they’ll die

After a hundred years or so

They walk into the desert alone

Offer up their breath

And within two minutes

Soar into a death

As beautiful as their life

And I was thinking I 

Will probably never be enlightened enough

To decide how I want to die

So this morning

I decided how I want to live

What I want to give

What kind of song I want to sing

Now I’m no longer

Looking at my days like they’re a cup

Calling them half empty or half full

When they’ve always been enough

They’ll always be enough

To fill me up

If I stop thinking so much

And start drinking them up

Until I get so drunk and high on my days

I’ll be walking up to strangers and saying things like

“Hey, I know Jesus was born in a manger

But I woke at dawn today

To watch the earth’s horizon

Give birth to true rising sun of God

And I can’t stop singing hallelujah”

Can you believe we’re here?

Can you believe there are gods somewhere praying to us?

I want to be that nut on a bus

Who’s really a prophet

Telling everybody 

“Smoking is bad

Stop it

You might be an opera singer some day

And how are you gonna hit the high notes?”

I wanna live like those high notes

That rise from the throats of old ladies

When they see little babies 

Riding in shopping carts

I wanna start somebody’s heart like that

Taking ninety years back

So you’ll have sworn

You weren’t born

Until you saw me

Planting roses

In all the sidewalk cracks

So when you trip

You’ll fall in love

With someone you thought you hated

And now look at what that love has created

Look

There’s a sky 

On her faded blue jeans

With a flock of birds 

About to fly to my words

And my next line’s

Gonna rhyme with her eyes

And she’ll wink

And I’ll think I’m as beautiful as him

I wanna live my life

Like it’s a little league game

I don’t care if I win

Just wanna watch some little girl

Get her very first hit

Watch her father cheer so hard 

He spills his beer

And decides to quit

I wanna split some woman’s 

Tired eyes open

Wake her with her own sunrise 

So she knows

There’s reason to be hoping

She’ll say

“There are stingers in my heart

But I’m sure that I’m a queen”

And that night

She’ll vow to swarm

Until every angry car horn

Is reborn a song

Of let there be light

Every angry war cry reborn

A song of let there be life

I wanna build the timid teenage boy

A microphone that will

Echo his rhymes

The same way 

They echo in his shower

When he’s home alone

I wanna write poems

In the tone

Of your mother’s eyes

When she whispered your name

For the very first time

Poems that will make you go home

Pick up the phone

And call her

While I call mine to say 

“You know those lines

On the kitchen wall

Where I grew

Taller and taller and taller

Put a couple more there won’t you?

Cause I’m growing up here”

No longer looking at my days

Like they’re a cup

Calling them enough

From now on

They’ll be overflowing

Since now I’m knowing

It’s up to me

To fill them up

The big idea: is compassion fatigue real?
Can we really maintain our levels of empathy in the face of an increasingly brutal news cycle?

The big idea: is compassion fatigue real? | Psychology | The Guardian

Think You Need a Detox? Here’s How To Do It Safely
It doesn’t involve juice cleanses or restrictive diets.

8 Tips for a Full-Body Cleanse (health.com)

Unsubcribe from everything to start controlling the tech in your life:

Does the number of unread messages in your inbox leave you lightheaded? Do your thumbs ache from tiny-keyboard typing? Have you forgotten what your real-life friends look like without an Instagram filter? It’s time for an intervention:

Unsubscribe: Radical strategies for taking back your time, attention and purpose | CNN

Humor:

Ever since I was a child I’ve always  had a fear of someone under my bed at night.

So I went to a shrink and told him, “I’ve got problems”.

“Every time I go to bed I think there’s somebody under it.”

“I’m scared. I think I’m going crazy.” 

“Just put yourself in my hands for one year,” said the shrink.

“Come talk to me three times a week and we should be able to get rid of those fears.” 

“How much do you charge?”

“One hundred fifty dollars per visit,” replied the doctor. 

“I’ll sleep on it,” I said.

Six months later the doctor met me on the street.

He asked, “Why didn’t you come to see me about those fears you were having?

” mm”Well, $150 a visit, three times a week for a year, is $23,400.00. A bartender cured me for $10.00.

I was so happy to have saved all that money that I went and bought a new pickup truck.” 

With a bit of an attitude he said, “Is that so?” “And how, may I ask, did a bartender cure you?”

Wait for it ….

“He told me to cut the legs off the bed. Ain’t nobody there now.”

It’s always better to get a second opinion…..

Please pay it forward with purpose!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday February 2, 2024: Better Rest, Upskilling Leadership, Mastering a Growth Mindset and Fostering a Great Culture

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

  • Better Rest
  • Upskilling Leadership
  • Mastering a Growth Mindset
  • Fostering a Great Culture

The Seven Forms of Rest and Why You Need All of Them:

The Seven Forms of Rest and Why You Need All of Them | INTEGRIS Health (integrisok.com)

NCPC Mentorship 2.0: Fostering A Community of Practice:

If you are local and want to grow here is a 4-month program I have had the privilege of helping ideate as part of my service on the NCPC Board of Directors to ensure everyone has access and opportunity to upleveling their leadership skills to drive social impact.

The mentors are all amazing and the program is designed to be a value driver for all that participate.

Note: This is the last week to sign up so please help us spread the word!

The 3 daily tricks Jay Shetty says will help you master a growth mindset and achieve your goals
The 3 steps of growth to set you up for success.

Jay Shetty: 3 tricks for achieving your goals and mastering the growth mindset | Fortune Well

What is Culture with Jon Gordon:

Culture is not one person. It’s everyone.

Culture is not static. It’s dynamic. 

Every day, everyone in your organization creates your culture by what they value, believe, think, say, and do. 

Regardless of what your culture was like last year or even yesterday, what matters most is what you are doing today to build your culture and make it great. 

This past Thursday and Friday I had the honor and opportunity to speak to the Colorado Rockies entire organization. From the Owner, President, GM, Manager and Dominican coaches to athletic trainers, equipment managers, ticket sales, tech, etc. It’s rare for a professional sports team to bring everyone in the organization together, but the Rockies have a rare, special culture filled with amazing people. 

It occurred to me how important it was that everyone in the organization was learning the same principles and practices for enhanced mindset, leadership and teamwork at the same time.

Shared learning experiences like this create a common bond, a common understanding, a common language, and common practices, that reinforce and strengthen the culture and lead to collective growth.

While I’m a big believer of diversity of people, diversity of thought, diversity of ideas and diversity of innovative strategies in an organization, it’s essential to connect and unite around a set of common principles, practices and core values.

For a culture to be strong, everyone in an organization must know what they stand for and live these shared principles and core values.

When a diverse group of people know and show their values consistently together, they are well on their way to creating a culture of greatness and creating great results.

Culture is created and you and your team can create a great culture starting today by what you value, believe, think, say and ultimately do. 

Start by getting together and ask, “What do we stand for and what do we want to be known for?”

Then decide how you will live it and show it.

Thanks this week go to Larry H for the culture article.

Please pay it forward.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday January: Spoken Word, Great Things Happening Every day, your 4 Pillar Wellbeing Kit and Hold on to Your Heart!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Inspiration from the 20th Annual Nonprofit Governance Symposium at USD:

Last week I had the privilege and opportunity to help shape and participate in the 20th Annual Nonprofit Governance Symposium at USD.

The In the Spirit of Leadership session in the afternoon, included a 10-minute nonstop writing exercise, along with a mindfulness practice, and some affirmations.

While I love writing and word play, this was new territory for me, and the writing exercise unleashed another creative dimension of my inner self, that came out unedited, in one flow experience, with pen to paper for the duration, until we were told to stop and come back inside.

Thanks to Causmosis, Dr. G and Dr. Y for an amazing conference and unleashing a different aspect of my authentic self!

Here goes:

Causmosis Made Me Do It

Top of mind, this is an experiment in open cognitive/emotional expression,

Where I go, I do not know- just flow baby flow.

Towards the abyss, I cannot miss,

The arrow hits the target the eye cannot see,

The guru within comes out in me,

I am emerging, growing, nearly free,

Free to be fully me!

I stand in the hallowed halls of grace,

I cradle my young self by the face,

Mistakes are forgiven trace by trace,

The irony, the tyranny are dissolved in the synchrony…

Reaching out on bended knee,

Bruises do not tattoos be,

I am not blind, I surely see,

Into thee I see.

Into thee I see.

Is this my very first spoken word?

Birthed of creativity in the theater of the absurd,

Expressed from sorrow to be heard,

Why did I wait to flip the bird- to doubt, to fear, to lack of faith?

Affirmations simply cannot wait!

It’s time to walk, how straight the gait,

I’m living freely for heaven’s sake!

In symphony with those around,

I hear birds sing in the background,

I feel my feet right on the ground,

My spirit soars its heaven bound.

Causmosis sits to my left,

She wields her pen with deft and depth,

Inspiring artists want to know,

What performance plays in the “inside” show?

And so, I write and write and write,

My grip is failing- pressure tight,

Is this from gripping this little pen,

Or fear of failing littler men?

Who can say?

What do I know?

It’s time to end,

This delightful show.

WORD!

Great Things Are Happening EVERY Day, but you don’t Hear About Them:

These stories don’t bleed, and so they don’t lead but here is some positive news to offset all the bad stuff that saturates our media, day in and day out.

66 Good News Stories You Didn’t Hear About in 2023 (futurecrunch.com)

One Good Thing: why you need to create your own 4-pillar wellbeing kit for better mental health:

stylist.co.uk/health/mental-health/four-pillar-wellbeing-toolkit-one-good-thing/857606

Hold On to Your Heart!

Our closest living relatives can recognize family members and long-lost friends, even after decades of separation.

Chimps and bonobos recognize friends, relatives they haven’t seen in decades : NPR

Thanks this week go to Dr. G, Dr. Y, Lorreta T, Brenda S, Vivian M (aka Causmosis) and Charles S.

Stop monkeying around doggone it, and please pay it forward today!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday January 19, 2024: Micro Acts of Joy, 3 Ingredients for Fun and 5 Resets for Toxic Stress

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Micro Habits and Micro Advantages – Small Things Often:

Can ‘micro-acts of joy’ make you happier? I tried them for seven days | Happiness | The Guardian

The 3 Ingredients for Fun!

The 3 ingredients for fun: an expert’s formula for experiencing genuine delight : NPR

Tame toxic stress with ‘5 resets’ in 2024 : Shots – Health News : NPR

Tame toxic stress with ‘5 resets’ in 2024 : Shots – Health News : NPR

Thanks this week to all of you that are holding space and grace for yourself and others in the new year!

Please pay it forward.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday Jan 12, 2024: Advice, Aristotle’s Rules for Happiness, Meditation and the Michigan QB & Rest and Recharge Tips from World Class Athletes for YOU

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Great Advice for the New Year, Aristotle’s Rules for Happiness, Meditation Sure Worked for Michigan’s QB, plus How World Class Athletes Rest and Recharge

The Best Advice we got in 2023:
Expert-approved tips — both big and small — to take you into 2024 and beyond.

Advice on how to live a more meaningful life in 2024 – Vox

An Ancient Greek Recipe for Happiness by Arthur Brooks:

Aristotle’s 10 Rules for a Happy Life – The Atlantic

Michigan quarterback J.J. McCarthy’s pregame meditation routine helped lead the Wolverines to victory. Here’s how it works:
The mental strength that led J.J. McCarthy to success: “I can react from a higher perspective.”

Michigan quarterback J.J. McCarthy’s pregame meditation routine | Fortune Well

How Some of the World’s Top Athletes Rest and Recharge:
Recovery is non-negotiable for them—as it should be for you.

How Some of the World’s Top Athletes Rest and Recharge | SELF

Thanks this week go to Dan L for the Aristotle’s 10 Rules article!

Wishing you a happy new year

Love,

Neville

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Your First Soul Food for 2024: Health and Mental Health Resolutions, Micro Habits, Medical Breakthroughs and Mind-Bending Brain Science Revelations

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

  • 4 Health Resolutions
  • 6 Micro Habits
  • 7 Medical Breakthroughs
  • 9 Mental Health Resolutions
  • + 2023 Mind Bending Revelations in the Brain Sciences

4 simple daily health resolutions that require minimal time:
Here are four simple health resolutions that require limited daily effort while delivering far-reaching health benefits — and some immediate gratification.

4 simple daily health resolutions that require minimal time | CNN

6 micro-habits to try in the new year for a happier 2024:
Forget the massive resolutions and try these easier options instead.

6 micro-habits to try in the new year for a happier 2024 (stylist.co.uk)

7 medical breakthroughs in 2023 to be excited about:
There were major breakthroughs in Alzheimer’s and sickle cell treatment.

The biggest medical breakthroughs in 2023 – ABC News (go.com)

9 Mental-Health Resolutions for 2024, According to Therapists:
Whether you feel reborn—or even just a little bit reset—at the start of a new year, consider making your mental health a priority in 2024. Why? “Because that’s the gateway to everything else,” says Guy Winch, a clinical psychologist, author of Emotional First Aid, and co-host of the Dear Therapists podcast. “It’s the linchpin that allows you to succeed or to fail.”

Mental-Health Resolutions for 2024, According to Therapists | TIME

2023’s Mind-Bending Revelations in the Brain Sciences:
This year was full of roiling debate and speculation about the prospect of machines with superhuman capabilities that might, sooner than expected, leave the human brain in the dust. A growing public awareness of ChatGPT and other so-called large language models (LLMs) dramatically expanded public awareness of artificial intelligence. In tandem, it raised the question of whether the human brain can keep up with the relentless pace of AI advances.

2023’s Mind-Bending Revelations in the Brain Sciences | Scientific American

What will YOU do differently in 2024?

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the Last Friday in 2023: Create Joy, Believe in Yourself, Stay Spiritual, Commune through Music

Happy Soul Food for the last Friday in 2023!

This week:

  • Make Joy Your Mission
  • Believe in Yourself
  • Experience the Beauty and Diversity of Human Spirituality in Pictures
  • Commune Through the Power of Live Music

WINTER’S CLOAK by Joyce Rupp:

This year I do not want the dark to leave me.
I need its wrap of silent stillness, its cloak of long-lasting embrace.
Too much light has pulled me away from the chamber of gestation.

Let the dawns come late, let the sunsets arrive early, let the evenings extend themselves while I lean into the abyss of my being.

Let me lie in the cave of my soul, for too much light blinds me, steals the source of revelation.

Let me seek solace in the empty places of winter’s passage, those vast dark nights that never fail to shelter me.

Mission Joy!

If you want to appreciate real joy from two masters of the craft and haven’t seen it yet, I strongly recommend watching this movie of the final meeting of His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu.

Sage wisdom and laugh out loud funny!

Home – Mission Joy

How to Believe in Yourself:

If you want to unlock your own potential and unleash your self-mastery in the new year, this is great listen!

How to Believe in Yourself | Hidden Brain Media

In pictures – human spirituality in all its remarkable beauty and diversity
Love, commitment, dedication, and faith — the many forms of devotion as seen through the lens of one photographer.

In pictures – human spirituality in all its beauty and diversity | The Independent

If you are local on Jan 4th 2024:

Join me on Thursday January 4th at the Music Box for some Righteous Live Music to Kick Off the New Year with Strange Crew!

As we turn the bend on another cycle around the sun, reflect on our resolutions while tolerating disillusions, if more live music is on your Santa list, here is your opportunity to launch into the New Year with the verve and vivacity that is all you…

Strange Crew (and me too) will be playing at the Music Box in Little Italy on Thursday 1/04/24 along with 3 other bands including ZenZag (Reggae Fusion), The Joshua 3 (U2 tribute), and Headmaster (Smiths fans…not impersonators).

So, grab your friends, family (21 and up), neighbors, workmates, frenemies- and come let your hair down.

YOU are in!

I can get you as many complimentary tickets as you like for this killer venue, so don’t be bashful- now is the time to be indulgent and spoil your friends too. This works as a holiday gift that extends into the new year and everyone will appreciate your magnanimous nature.

Simply email me ASAP at nevilleb@missionfed.com  re: the number of tickets you want + your mailing address and voila you are on the nice list!

More on these fun bands can be found here: ZenZag, Strange Crew, The Joshua 3, Headmaster (musicboxsd.com)

And here is a sampler to whet your whistle: Strange Crew – YouTube

Thanks this week go to Kurt C for the poem!

Happy New Year everyone…

Love,

Neville

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