The Six Guardians of Your Total Health and Wellbeing

This week:

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The Six Guardians of Your Total Health and Wellbeing:
With so much craziness in the world, we have to learn to take care of ourselves and one another.
Here is an article I wrote some moons ago that might help… 

Food and Diet:
You are what you eat.
Both disease and energy come through food.
Unfortunately, most of us eat for the sake of eating
not for the sake of health.
Our food, from a holistic perspective, serves two
primary functions.
The first is to nourish and give us energy (assimilate).
The second is to clean out and detoxify (eliminate).
All foods eaten for health and not just to indulge the
taste buds should aid in either or both these functions.
Typically, eating natural unrefined foods provides
the optimum source of nutrition and energy.
Eating “food without faces” is often suggested for a
long and healthy life. Unless you have an eating disorder,
one of the best things you can do for yourself is to eat less.
(Systematic under-eating)
For the average person in western cultures today,
only one fourth of what we eat actually helps us.
The rest helps the doctor! (No offense my doctor friends…)

Overeating simply overtaxes our system, wastes valuable natural
resources,(do you know there are as many starving
people in the world as there are overweight people?)
and creates other health problems down the road.

Finally, it is not just what you eat or how much you
eat, but HOW you eat that makes a big difference.
So many of us eat junk, eat too much and, if you are
like me, eat too fast. Learn to take time to enjoy the
process of eating. Savor every mouthful. Be grateful you
are not one of the people on this planet today that
is hungry, malnourished or starving to death. Half our
planet is undernourished!
Don’t put another mouthful in until the previous mouthful
has been completely swallowed. Take time to make the process of
eating a joyous, even meditative experience.
This conscious eating honors the food, appreciates the chef,
embraces the life energy made available through the meal
and ultimately provides more than calories, protein, carbs, fats,
vitamins, minerals, antioxidants etc.-it provides
life itself.
Try changing one thing about what, how and how much you eat today
and notice the difference…

 

Your Living Environment:
Usually, when we think of our living environment, we think
of the place where you live.
Your living environment, however, includes the place and
CONDITIONS under which you live.

It is not enough to have a clean, bright, airy home or apartment
in outer harmony with nature in perfect feng shui alignment,
if the inner environment is one of stress, tension and discord.

Creating an environment of support, comfort, and inner safety
can do wonders for the health and well-being for all members of
the household.

See if you can identify some things you can do to make your living
environment a sanctuary from the stress and tension in and around you.
Commit to making your living environment the best you can!

 

Exercise:
All exercise is good, but not all exercise is good for all people!
Today, everyone seems to be touting the benefits of exercise for
strengthening the body, relaxing the mind, reducing heart disease,
and even offsetting depression.

Exercise can be broken down into vigorous, moderate, and gentle forms.
Recent studies have validated the dramatic benefits of even a little
exercise on our health, with less dramatic advantages of intense exercise
over longer periods.
If a little is good, a lot must be better, doesn’t hold true when it comes
to exercise, although this varies from individual to individual.

No students this cannot be used as an excuse for me to make the trainings easier…

The old adage of no pain, no gain is also vigorously disputed in the current literature,
which validates what holistic practitioners have been saying for thousands of years:
involve yourself in types of exercise you enjoy.
Enjoy the process of exercising not just the end result.
Exercising for admirable abs or bodacious buns is probably not worth it if you don’t
enjoy the process.
In fact it might be killing you!
So much for the killer workout… It might be doing just that!

It seems that certain types of exercise do suit most people.
These include-walking, swimming, yoga and tai chi.
Yoga and tai chi emphasize the flow of life energy in the whole body
releasing toxins and creating a sense of wellbeing.
Maintaining flexibility and range of motion have long been key elements in developing
total health-so stretch yourself every day!

Regardless of the form of exercise or cross-training regimen you select,
make sure you learn, practice and emphasize the proper breathing method.
The benefits of using the proper breathing method cannot be overstated and
makes a tremendous difference in the process of exercising and the ensuring results.
Ask you Sensei to teach you how to breathe and I’ll save my breath and you can save yours!

 

Rest:
One of the most sorely neglected aspects of wellness,
pun duly intended, is rest.
In today’s fast-paced society, the majority of us simply
do not get enough rest. The right amount of rest is defined
by your ability to recoup energy and repair damaged tissue.

Depending on your particular lifestyle and disposition, the amount
of rest you need will vary. If you are involved in a lot of hard
labor or intense exercise you will obviously need more rest than
those whose lifestyles are more sedentary.

But… “rest should not turn into rust!”

 

Communing with Nature:
Living in the urban jungle, we often lose our connection
to nature. For countless generations, our ancestors lived
in balance with nature, and recognized and celebrated the
interconnectedness and interdependence with all of nature.

Reawakening our primal links to Mother Earth, Father Sky,
Brother Sun and Sister Moon reminds us of one simple fact:

Nature is full of energy!

It is yours for the taking (shakuraki is a term the Japanese use about how we can borrow energy from nature)

Sunshine is a natural source of Vitamin D.
Sunshine is also a natural germicide and insecticide.
Fresh air purifies the organs and sharpens the senses.

We take in air through the lungs but also through the skin.
Pure water flushes us inside and out.
Drinking seven glasses of clean water a day is excellent for us.
Getting in cold water (hydrotherapy) causes the capillaries to
shrink on the outside and forces the blood to be shunted to the
heart, thereby cleansing and tonifying the circulatory system.
Spending time outdoors in communion with nature can do wonders
for ones state of mind.

Get out your calendar right now and block off some time in nature
today, this week and this month.

 

Right Mental Attitude:
It is well known that the mind governs the body and the body affects
the mind. In western psychology, they talk about a
psychophysiological isomorphism- a one to one relationship between
body and mind.

In today’s society of negats and negaholics, one must put on the armor
of one’s own positive thoughts. It takes practice to re-program ourselves
toward positive thinking. Sadly, according to scientists, we give ourselves
thousands of negative messages each day.
Worrying is nothing but negative goal setting.
And 90% of the things we worry about-NEVER HAPPEN!

Positive autosuggestion takes practice.
We all get to choose whether we want to elevate or
degrade our mental attitude.
Being grateful, practicing forgiveness, rewarding yourself daily,
laughter and humor, play and recreation, meditation and prayer,
practicing self-love, using affirmations, developing your own
self-healing script, and practicing positive self-talk are some
powerful ways to change your attitude and keep the change.

As my mentor Sensei Castilonia would say “cultivate a sense of pleasure, accomplishment,
contentment and enthusiasm for life” (keep the PACE) are some key indicators that you
are on your way to cultivating and developing the right mental attitude.

Drill for skill.
Practice like you want to perform.
What you do-you become.
Repetition is the key to anchoring a new behavior, attitude or skill.

With the six guardians mentioned above, you are
well on your way to creating a healthy life.

“Sow a thought-reap an action
Sow an action-reap a habit
Sow a habit-reap a character
Sow a character-reap a destiny!”

Be well & keep the PACE
Love,
Neville

 

If you are Local…
Kids Free in October- Thanks Mission Fed!

San Diego Zoo and Safari Park
October marks one of our largest and most popular signature events: Kids Free at the San Diego Zoo and Safari Park. For the tenth consecutive year, we are the presenting sponsor of this well-loved promotion, welcoming children 11 and under with free admission all month long, courtesy of Mission Fed.
http://zoo.sandiegozoo.org/

Museum Month – San Diego Museum Council
New this year, Mission Fed has partnered with the San Diego Museum Council for its own version of Kids Free in October. Last year, nearly 20,000 children participated in the program and this year it is expected to be even more popular, as children can visit their choice of 43 local art, cultural and science museums throughout San Diego County on us!

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Mission Fed - Kids Free - SD Museum Council 2017_Spanish

Thanks this week go to mentors everywhere, kind and caring community organizations and those of us that choose to see the change and then be the change in our world.

Stay well, support your community, keep the PACE and Pay it Forward!
Love,
Neville

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See the Change You Want to Be in the World”-Neville
“Be the Change You Want to See in the World”- Gandhiji

I Won’t Back Down!

This week:

My Soul Hurts with the Madness in the World by I Won’t Back Down!

“We are usually in one of these three situations.

  1. We are stressed out because a circumstance is not happening the way our old story perceives it should be happening.
  2. We are temporarily happy because a circumstance is happening the way our old story wanted it to happen.
  3. We are experiencing true deep fulfillment because we are connecting to this moment and to the truth of what we really are.  As we do this, we transcend the need for our circumstances to be any way because our connection is to ourselves.  This causes circumstances to change much more rapidly in our favor but we don’t care because our connection, truth, happiness are with ourselves, this moment and the universe.  We transcend the need for things to change but ironically, that is why things change for the better.  We are able to release everything as we connect to the bigger truth.  We stop playing small games in the addiction world and expand with the universe in the moment.
    All three ways serve a purpose.
    The first two will repeat themselves over and over until we fully understand they no longer serve us.
    The third way is where we will all end up, eventually…”
    Kyle Cease

 

The Earth’s Prayer a 21st Century Complement to the Lord’s Prayer:

Recent current events couple with conversations with a conscious leaders men’s group I am proud to be part of reminded me of this prayer I stretched myself to create some years ago.
Emboldened by the feedback from my brothers I decided to share it here, and while inspired on a summer trip to Europe in 2009, I think the spirit within is still relevant.
The PowerPoint shares both the back story and the final output. The text is on the left, and the rationale, deconstruction, analysis, inspiration, wrangling, etc is on the right of each slide, with the final composite integrated at the end.

As you will see, I was crazy enough to grapple with heavy topics and issues such as:

  • Faith, different faiths (institutional and highly personal), no faith but perhaps a different calling/connection, all together
  • The nature of God, the nature of Nature, a Natural g-d (spirit),
  • Transient v. Imminent Truth,
  • Humility to a Higher Self and Accountability to one’s Personal Self,
  • Investing in Loss (surrender/subservience) and Investing in Growth (stewardship),
  • Dis ease with prayer and the disease that lack of faith (of some kind) can bring,
  • The Strength of “Father” augmented by the Compassion of “Mother”,
    The list goes on…

We are sometimes socially directed to stay away from three taboo subjects; money, sex and religion. While this may be true for broad social interactions, as relationships deepen, one can’t have a real human connection without some appropriate discussion of one or more of these- to some degree- so here goes…
Finally, with any form of creative expression, there is by definition vulnerability and exposure, made exponential in this case, tackling a subject of this magnitude and emotive content, so be gentle on me…
If this is out of your comfort zone, simply delete it.
The Earths Prayer

Tom Petty’s Passing…
“I turned anger into ambition,” he told one interviewer. “Any sort of injustice would outrage me. I couldn’t contain myself.”
His songs stayed down-to-earth, with sturdy guitar riffs carrying lyrics that spoke for underdogs and ornery outcasts and I was privileged to see him one last time just a week ago…
In a world of legal wrangling over musical IP he was ok with musical accidents.
In 2015, when Sam Smith belatedly realized that the chorus of his hit “Stay With Me” had all too much in common with “I Won’t Back Down,” written by Mr. Petty and Mr. Lynne; he quickly shared the songwriting credit. “A musical accident no more no less,” Mr. Petty wrote in a typically laconic statement. “In these times we live in this is hardly news.”
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/03/arts/music/tom-petty-dead.html

A talented songwriter, Tom Petty was also a great musical collaborator. Enjoy these legends celebrating another legend:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6SFNW5F8K9Y

It Starts with You:
Every Monday Matters is committed to inspiring a new normal, where individuals and organizations understand how much and why they matter to themselves, the community and the world and is a nice complement to Soul Food Fridays!
http://everymondaymatters.org/

If you are local…
“No More No More”- A Free Human Trafficking Awareness Program October 11th from 3:30 to 6pm @ UC San Diego
I will be emceeing this event so please join us if you can…https://www.eventbrite.com/e/no-more-no-more-tickets-36841783767

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Thanks this week go to Paul C and the men in the CLC, Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers, and All of Us that Know it Starts with Us and Won’t Back Down!

Pay it forward
Love, Neville

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“When we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that’s present….we experience heaven on earth.”

Beyond Happiness, A Life Without Words, Being Prepared and a 30 Compassion Challenge

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This week:

There is More to Life Than Being Happy (TED Talk):
Enjoy this video that outlines the power of focusing on creating a more meaningful life, with four pillars which can lead to happiness. They are 1) a sense of belonging 2) finding your purpose 3) transcendence and 4) storytelling.
https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_esfahani_smith_there_s_more_to_life_than_being_happy?utm_source=newsletter_weekly_2017-09-16&utm_campaign=newsletter_weekly&utm_medium=email&utm_content=talk_of_the_week_image

A Life Without Words (RadioLab)…
I Challenge You to Listen to the First Seven Minutes of this Podcast and Not Get Hooked into Listening to the Whole Thing:
Susan Schaller believes that the best idea she ever had in her life had to do with an isolated young man she met one day at a community college. He was 27-years-old at the time, and though he had been born deaf, no one had ever taught him to sign. He had lived his entire life without language–until Susan found a way to reach out to him…
http://www.radiolab.org/story/91725-words/

 

If you are local (on not)…

It’s National Preparedness Month: Let’s Be Prepared!
Is there an earthquake fault near your home, your workplace or your child’s school? Or perhaps you live or work in a floodplain, high-risk wildfire area or a tsunami inundation zone. If so, there are steps you can take to reduce your risk in some cases, register for emergency notifications, and to better prepare your family for an emergency. To do that, you need all the facts.
The San Diego County Office of Emergency Services developed a Know Your Hazards online tool to help make getting that information as easy as typing in an address or dropping a pin on a map.

OES write-up here: http://www.countynewscenter.com/map-shows-disaster-risks-by-location/  The last portion of the story has vital tools on emergency preparedness as well.

Know Your Hazards page here: http://www.readysandiego.org/know-your-hazards/

 

Are You Up for the 30 Day Compassion IT Challenge!

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SIGN UP

Hola! I wanted to send one more reminder about our upcoming 30-Day Compassion It Challenge. By making compassion a priority each day, you will no doubt experience an unforgettable month.

Like many, you may be frustrated by or even afraid of what’s happening in the world today. Heartbreaking headlines of climate change, injustices, and civil unrest can create feelings of helplessness, sadness and anger.

We each have the opportunity to create change in our world through our individual actions. Now is the time for compassion, and it’s up to you and me.

I hope you’ll sign up for our free 30-Day Compassion It Challenge. Please invite your classrooms, co-workers, friends and family members.

Learn more on our Facebook event page. Please use that page to invite others!

THANK YOU for making our world better.

With enthusiasm,
Sara Schairer

Founder
Compassion It
www.compassionit.com

Thanks this week go to Peter D and the Conscious Leaders Collective brotherhood,  Enrique M from the Mission Fed team, &  Sara S helping us all be Compassion IT!

Please Pay it Forward with Purpose & Know How Much You Matter…
Love,
Neville

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“The world connects not by molecules. It connects through ideas, hopes, faces, dreams, actions, stories and memories….”
– Barrie Stanford Greiff

The Autumnal Equinox & Three Laws that can bring Us Positive Energy in Alignment with the Universe- Be purposeful, Be patient and Be engaged

This week:

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Happy Fall Equinox!
Three laws that can bring us positive energy, if we make the most of them… 

The Autumnal Equinox in San Diego is today Friday, September 22, 2017 at 1:02 pm PDT.  The Equinox reminds us about the passage of time, the motion of the Earth, and the changing of the seasons. It marks the start of Autumn for us in the Northern Hemisphere. For our friends in the Southern Hemisphere, it’s reversed. Spring has just begun for them. On this day, the Sun rises directly in the East, and sets directly in the West. It’s one of two times a year that the day and night are about the same length. On Sept 22 (in San Diego) the sun will rise at about 6:40am and set around 6:40pm; that day cycle is equally divided and the beginning of Autumn. The balancing act that is the Autumn Equinox reminds us of three laws that can bring us positive energy, if we make the most of them.

 

They are:
The law of attraction
The law of gestation
The law of action & they are especially potent when we honor them together.
They can also be summed up in this way… Be purposeful, Be patient and Be engaged. 

There’s much that is great about our world and life. And there’s much that we can help heal and improve. Let’s band together, leverage our unique talents and passions, and apply the laws of Life, to collectively manifest what we dream of for ourselves and our families.

Wishing you and your loved ones great good fortune in the season ahead and wishing you a special day, symbolic of balance in our life and with the environment..

Love and light!

Need A Happiness Boost?
Spend Your Money To Buy Time, Not More Stuff:
http://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2017/08/28/545839192/need-a-happiness-boost-spend-your-money-to-buy-time-not-more-stuff

Equifax data breach: Do a 15 minute cybersecurity makeover:
What we can do to make our cyber selves a little safer…
https://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/columnist/saltzman/2017/09/17/equifax-data-breach-do-15-minute-cybersecurity-makeover/668684001/

The Remake Learning Networks Turns 10:
If you are exploring best principles in innovative collaborations, this is one I am a super impressed with!
Thanks James H for bringing their 10 year anniversary to our attention…
https://dmlcentral.net/remake-learning-network-turns-10-reaches-forward/?utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=DML

If You Are Local… 

The 45th Annual National Philanthropy Day November 14th 2017

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Thanks this week go to Eric K, Billy S, James H and the entire NPD team!
Please pay it forward with purpose
Love,
Neville

“The world connects not by molecules. It connects through ideas, hopes, faces, dreams, actions, stories and memories….”
– Barrie Stanford Greiff

Unbridled Sportsmanship, Overwhelming Kindness & Announcing the Soft Launch of the Chamber of PURPOSE San Diego

This week:

“Winners practice until they get it right,
while Champions practice until they can’t get it wrong!” 

Think Global-

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Did You Witness this Fine Example of Unbridled Sportsmanship and Overwhelming Kindness at the US Open Women’s Final?
In a time fraught with incivility, flat out meanness, and a win at all costs mentality, these two young women warriors what a real champion & true success really looks like.
Champions model excellence and character both on and off the court and they really made my heart sing!
https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/columnist/brennan/2017/09/09/us-open-women-sloane-stephens-defeats-madison-keys/650351001/

The moment that actually lasted forever:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66ggfDs7leU

Choosing to sit on the other side of the net with the vanquished:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BuHpHeE7Nbk

Joking over the $3.7MM windfall:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzEf796RciY

Act Local-

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19th Annual Cause Conference leads to the announcement of the Chamber of Purpose San Diego:

Last week, as many of you experienced first-hand, we officially announced the formation of our private Facebook group for the Chamber of Purpose San Diego at this year’s Cause Conference entitled; Maximizing Your Impact through the Power of Purpose. To date, more than 100 leaders have already signed up. If you self-refer as a purpose driven leader, you might consider joining this group and inviting other purpose-driven business and civic leaders to join us.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/chamberofpurposesd/
This will serve as a powerful “connectory” between working meetings as we crystallize our work effort, share our information and learn about others in the ecosystem. You will appreciate While this is a closed group which means anyone can find it, but can only join if an admin grants them access, in the spirit of inclusion, if you invite people you deem kindred spirits we will be happy to include them. We have an information literacy expert, Glen Warren helping us curate content and will be populating the site over the next few weeks…
Thanks for your personal commitment to making San Diego
America’s Kindest and most Purpose-FULL Region!

Thanks this week go to all the great coaches that teach character not just competence, and how to win both on and off the field of life, as well as everyone seeking & living their purpose!

Pay it forward!
Love,
Neville

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“The world connects not by molecules. It connects through ideas, hopes, faces, dreams, actions, stories and memories….”

– Barrie Stanford Greiff

Leading the Purpose Revolution in Business & Beyond!

This week:

#DoWhatYouCan’t:
A great vid to reset your mindset and start you off on the right foot!
https://youtu.be/hjKd24UCPYY

U/T Community Spotlight with Dr. D and Me:
Some insights for Conscious Leaders…
http://wsradio.com/090117-2017-cause-conference-conscious-capitalism-san-diego-council-literacy/

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Here is a San Diego Daily Transcript Op/Ed on Conscious Leadership:
Among the greatest threats to Conscious Leadership is unmanaged stress…
https://www.sdtranscript.com/common/SDTFreeStory.cfm?sdtid=961663

Leading the Purpose Revolution in Business:
Enjoy this San Diego Business Journal Op/Ed I co-authored this week…San_Diego_Business_Journal(2017-09-04)_page35

Thanks this week go to Drew S, Vince H, Tom S, & the entire Cause Conference team that is simply too large to name everyone, but you know who you are!

Pay it forward purposefully!
Love,
Neville

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“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work, and give orders.
Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea.”
–Antoine de Saint- Exupery

 

Passion or Purpose, U/T Podcast, NonViolent Communication Principles & Discount Tixs for Cause

This week:

My Purpose: Building engaged communities empowered to realize their potential to positively impact the world!

Adversity Doesn’t Breed Character It Reveals It- Lessons from Houston:
Keep Houston in Your Thoughts and Giving Circle
“We all have a responsibility to the well-being of our community. … We know that if we help these citizens when they’re in need, they will help us.”
https://www.cnbc.com/2017/08/31/houstons-gallery-furniture-turns-stores-into-shelters-to-help-victims.html

U/T Podcast: Enlightened Negotiations and The Power of Purpose
Here is a podcast from the U/T Community Spotlight on how to prosperously elevate human interactions, one of the sessions at next month’s Cause Conference with my dear friend Mehrad!
“Win/Win on Steroids” “the deal ends but the results and reputation last”…

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http://wsradio.com/082517-leukemia-2017-cause-conference/

 Following your Passion, while Living out your Purpose is the Ultimate life Goal:
The Difference between Passion and Purpose
https://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/difference-passion-purpose-need/

Nonviolent Communication is based on a fundamental principle: Underlying all human actions are needs that people are seeking to meet
The language of Nonviolent Communication includes two parts: honestly expressing ourselves to others, and empathically hearing others.
http://www.wanttoknow.info/inspiration/nonviolent_communication_summary_nvc

If you are local…
Maximizing Your Impact through the Power of Purpose is one week away with an amazing line up!
http://sdama.org/cause
If you have been procrastinating and do want to attend this year’s Cause Conference on September 8, here is a link to a 15% discount for non-member and nonprofit ticket types
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2017-cause-conference-tickets-35158635425?discount=CC17COMMUNITY

Strengthening Democracy Summit September 19th:

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Thanks to Drew S & Mehrad N for a thoughtful community dialogue on purpose, Glen W for stimulating the difference between passion and purpose, Mehrad for reminding us of the importance of nonviolent communication, and the local purpose and philanthropy communities for making us better civic leaders! 

Pay it forward and see you next week at the Cause Conference!
Love,
Neville

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“The meaning of your life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.”- Pablo Picasso

Generous Cities, Magnanimous Moms and Coddled Puppies- It Ain’t What You Think…

Happy Soul Food Friday!

Purpose: An aspirational reason for being, grounded in humanity, which galvanizes stakeholders to drive innovation and growth

 This week:

 Is SD America’s Most Generous City?
“The Noblest Motive is the Public Good”
http://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/opinion/commentary/sd-utbg-philanthropy-charity-navigator-20170803-story.html

When You Factor in Family Duties, the Average Working Mom Works 98 Hours a Week
Working moms, and moms in general, don’t get enough credit for all that they do, which is pretty much work all the time, even when they’re not getting paid
http://www.workingmother.com/when-you-factor-in-family-duties-average-working-mom-works-98-hours-week

Coddled Puppies Make Poor Guide Dogs Study Suggests:
Super interesting with potential implications for both child-rearing and student/adult-rearing if you factor in what we can control and factor out genetics …
http://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2017/08/07/541644280/coddled-puppies-make-poor-guide-dogs-study-suggests

If you are local…
Updated Speaker and Program Content for this year’s Cause Conference on Maximizing Your Impact through the Power of Purpose
http://sdama.org/events/2017-cause-conference/

Thanks this week go to James H, Amanda R and team Parenting 2.0, National Public Radio and Soul-filled Citizens Everywhere!

Pay it Forward!
Love,
Neville

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“The meaning of your life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.”- Pablo Picasso

“If you’re not outraged, you’re not paying attention.” – Heather Heyer’s final Facebook post before she was killed on Saturday

Happy Soul Food Friday

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This week:

“If you’re not outraged, you’re not paying attention.” This was Heather Heyer’s final Facebook post before she was killed on Saturday…

What we are feeling, what we are thinking and what we can do about it…

Tell Me Why – Declan Galbraith:
Let the Children Teach Us Well… (with over 1MM hits on You Tube)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pg_MxONabNc

Mayor Mitch Landrieu Said it All on May 31st 2017, Long Before Charlottesville in this Powerful Speech on the Removal of Confederate Statues – The Washington Post:
Out of many we are one and better for it…
https://www.washingtonpost.com/video/national/full-speech-mitch-landrieu-addresses-removal-of-confederate-statues/2017/05/31/cbc3b3a2-4618-11e7-8de1-cec59a9bf4b1_video.html?utm_term=.005ac9578c65

Local Responses and Reactions from Leaders and Organizations I Value This Week With Respect to Charlottesville:

  • Unite. Organize. Vote.
  • “If you’re not outraged, you’re not paying attention.” This was Heather Heyer’s final Facebook post before she was killed on Saturday.
  • Funders for LGBTQ Issues stands in solidarity with those who resisted the forces of white supremacy in Charlottesville, Virginia, this weekend — and with the countless individuals who everyday resist bigotry and prejudice.
  • Wealthy donors and Grant makers: You can no longer hide behind neutrality after the terrorist attack in Charlottesville
  • Charlottesville and a Time for Gracious Anger

White supremacy: What’s a CEO to do?
A thoughtful piece on current events and brand implications for the C-suite:
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/white-supremacy-whats-ceo-do-bea-boccalandro?published=t

 

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Dear Colleagues,

Like all of you, we are appalled by the displays of racism-fueled violence perpetuated by the KKK, Neo-Nazis, and similar groups that occurred in Charlottesville, Virginia this weekend. We want to reiterate to our members across California that in the face of such deeply disturbing intolerance, our organizations stand together in condemning hatred, embracing diversity, and working toward just, equitable communities.

There are several statements from the social sector about the events in Charlottesville including Dr. Bob Ross, President and CEO of The California Endowment; Advancement Project, Funders for LGBTQ Issues, National Center for Responsive Philanthropy and Vu Le’s blog.

There is much work to be done, and we welcome your thoughts and ideas about how philanthropy can be part of the solution. Thank you for everything you do to ensure ALL of our community members have the safety, support, and opportunity to thrive in our country.

Sincerely,

Ellen LaPointe, President and CEO, Northern California Grantmakers
Nancy Jamison, President and CEO, San Diego Grantmakers
Chris Essel, President and CEO, Southern California Grantmakers

 

Thanks this week go to Feroza A and the Alliance for Empowerment, Mark T and the Conscious Culture Roundtable group, Nancy J and San Diego Grantmakers, Bea B, as well as all of you who stand up individually or collectively for the values that make this nation and the world for that matter, the world we wish to leave for the next generation. Stand up America!

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Please pay it forward!
Love,
Neville

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And if I am only for myself, then what am I?
And if not now, when?”—Rabbi Hillel

Culture IS Strategy, Doing Good is Good for Your Business & More Work On Purpose

Happy Soul Food Friday!

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This week:

KPMG and Purpose:
How can your organization build morale, gain higher productivity and keep people engaged?
Hear what KPMG is doing on purpose…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyu1kUIhegw

Walking the Talk: Culture IS Strategy
how by aligning actions with values and purpose-beyond-profit, businesses can create a successful brand with: clarity, consistency, character, communications, and culture…
http://bit.ly/2vX4LSz

Why Doing Good Is Good for Your Design Business
Doing “Good” as a creative or company not only attracts the right people to work for you and with you, but also generates opportunities to engage with great clients… https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/why-doing-good-your-design-business-justin-ahrens

How to Stop Checking Your Phone!
Some of the behavioral steps indicated apply beyond phone usage and might actually help other aspects of your life…
For example: You don’t break habits, you replace them…
http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/03/how-to-stop-checking-your-phone/

Are you in Medicine?
Here is a unique invitation for you…
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If you are local:
Stan Phelps Keynoting 19th Annual Cause Conference Sept 8th @ UC San Diego:

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Stan Phelps to Keynote
Cause Conference 2017
Maximizing Your Impact Through The Power Of Purpose

CCSD, AMA SD and SDNA, are thrilled to announce that author and speaker Stan Phelps will keynote the 19th Annual Cause Conference. Phelps inspires organizations and brands to be remarkable, showing them how to stand out in ways that customers and employees can’t help but talk about. His informative keynotes and workshops focus on the impact of purpose in business, the value of customer experience as a competitive differentiator, and the role of employee engagement in building a strong corporate culture.

An IBM Futurist, TEDx Speaker and Forbes Contributor, Phelps has spoken at over 250 events, on every inhabited continent, in over a dozen countries, for Fortune 100 brands such as IBM, Target, ESPN, UPS, GlaxoSmithKline and Citi.

He is the author of the six-book Goldfish series:

  • Red GoldfishMotivating Sales and Loyalty Through Shared Passion & Purpose
  • Purple Goldfish – 12 Ways to Win Customers and Influence Word of Mouth
  • Green GoldfishBeyond Dollars: 15 Ways to Drive Employee Engagement
  • Golden GoldfishThe Vital Few: All Customers and Employees Are Not Created Equal
  • Blue GoldfishUsing Technology, Data and Analytics to Drive Both Profits & Prophets
  • Purple Goldfish Service EditionThe 12 Ways Hotels, Restaurants & Airlines Win the Right Customers

According to Phelps, putting purpose first benefits employees, shareholders and customers. Business 1.0 focused on shareholders. Business 2.0 was all about customers. Now, business 3.0 puts purpose first. Purpose-driven companies are dedicated to a purpose that drives employee engagement, fuels the bottom line, and makes an impact on the lives of those it serves. It is Phelps’ contention that, “By 2020 purpose will be the main driver of business, not corporate filing status. Companies will either be seen as ‘for purpose’ or ‘not for purpose’.”

DJ King, Cause Conference executive committee member and president of Conscious Capitalism San Diego said, “Stan’s latest book, Red Goldfish, offers fresh, entertaining and valuable insights into the positive impact of purpose-driven business, which is one of the key tenets of Conscious Capitalism. His keynote will set the stage for the conference journey toward achieving meaningful impact through aligning with our purpose.”

Learn more about our speakers  and see our full agenda.

Date: September 8th, 2017 from 7AM to 6PM

Location: UC San Diego’s Price Center

Early-Bird Price: $129 Members / $249 Non-Members

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Steeply discounted Member pricing Available

 

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Engage with hundreds of purpose-minded professionals.
Become a #CauseSD Sponsor!

 

Thanks this week go to Steven B, Sustainable Brands, Tom S, Marlaine C, Karen M, & Cathy S for keeping your Soul Food coming!

Please pay it forward…
Love,
Neville

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