Your Soul Food for Friday January 16, 2026: Being Nicer, Pleasure for Self-Improvement, Silence YOUR Inner Critic and Art Could Save your Life!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

  • 8 Ways to Become a Nicer Person
  • Why Pleasure is the key to self-improvement
  • How to finally Silence your inner critic, according to psychologists
  • Art could Save your life! Five creative ways to make 2026 happier, healthier, and more hopeful

8 Ways to Become a Nicer Person:
Experts agree on a few easy tips for our modern times.

8 Ways to Become a Nicer Person | TIME

Why pleasure is the key to self-improvement:
Forget puritanical self-discipline – the way to really make a new habit stick is to lace it with instant gratification

Why pleasure is the key to self-improvement | Psychology | The Guardian

How to finally silence your inner critic, according to psychologists:
The criticism coming from your inner voice isn’t always the most constructive. But psychologists are working on ways to help your negative self-talk. January 10, 2026 I am lazy. I’m a slob. I’m [something that can’t be printed]. These are the thoughts that pop into my head when I’m scrolling senselessly on the sofa, or after finding another bag of withered salad in my fridge, forgotten thanks to the takeaways I chose to have instead of preparing my own healthier options.

How to finally silence your inner critic, according to psychologists | BBC Science Focus Magazine

Art could save your life! Five creative ways to make 2026 happier, healthier, and more hopeful:
Engaging in creativity can reduce depression, improve immunity and delay ageing – all while you’re having fun

Art could save your life! Five creative ways to make 2026 happier, healthier and more hopeful | Health & wellbeing | The Guardian

Please pay it forward with purpose!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the First Full Week of 2025: Closing Out 2024 and Soaring into a Meaningful and Healthy 2025 Without Resolutions

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

77 Facts That Blew Our Minds in 2024:
Chewing gum, space capsules, and minivans are just a few of the things we see differently after a year of reporting. December 28, 2024 Onions were used to treat wounds during the French and Indian War. The energy required to show a new Instagram post from Cristiano Ronaldo to each of his followers could power a house for several years. A group of butterflies flew across the Atlantic Ocean without stopping. It took them only about eight days and more…

77 Facts That Blew Our Minds in 2024 – The Atlantic

  1. Be so great, you can’t be ignored.
  2. Take care of the work and the work will take care of you.
  3. Growth is on the other side of discomfort.
  4. Failure teaches you everything you need to know to be successful.
  5. Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.
  6. There’s only one person you spend all your time with and that’s you, so do yourself a favor and be as fascinating as possible.
  7. I’d rather regret the things I did than the things I never tried. 

To succeed in 2025, a therapist says do 5 things: It works ‘any time of year’
To shift from ineffective resolutions to meaningful manifesting any time of year, says psychotherapist Chamin Ajjan, follow these practical tips.

To be successful in 2025, a therapist says do these 5 things

44 health-boosting habits to feel better in 2025:
A full night without waking is not the norm, and that’s OK. “Waking at night need not mean the end of sleep,” says Russell Foster, a professor of circadian neuroscience at Oxford University. “Some find it useful to leave the bed, keep the lights low and engage in a relaxing activity before returning when sleepy again.” It’s the biggest cliché in self-help, but how many of us do it? “Dare to be vulnerable enough to be all of yourself for most of the time,” the psychotherapist Philippa Perry says.

44 health-boosting habits to feel better in 2025

Feel Good Bonus-

What Happens To Their Brain Waves When Humans And Dogs Connect?
It turns out there’s a scientific explanation for our strong bond to our dogs. Here’s how your pup influences your brain’s activity.

What Happens To Their Brain Waves When Humans And Dogs Connect?

Thanks this week go to Sanya D for the 11 questions, Angelica G/W for the 7 Pieces of Advice and Ellie our yellow lab for her unconditional love.

Please pay it forward and make this a year to remember!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for May Day 2024: May is Mental Health Awareness Month. End the Stigma. Make it OK.

This week:

Purpose in Life Can Lead to Less Stress, Better Mental Well-Being:

Psychiatry.org – Purpose in Life Can Lead to Less Stress, Better Mental Well-being

There Are 5 ‘Stress Languages.’ Here’s How To Figure Out Yours.
You’ve heard of love languages, but what about these? Experts break down each type and what they say about how you handle stress.

What Is Your Stress Language? | HuffPost Life

What is Your Language of Appreciation at Work?

In the spirit of the platinum rule v. the golden rule, where the Golden Rule says, “Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you”, the Platinum Rule suggests: “Do unto others, as others would have done unto themselves.

Use the 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace | Great Place To Work®

Inspiration-

Homeless Man Rushes Into A Burning Animal Shelter And Saves Every Animal, Here’s The Story
After a kitchen fire started at the W-Underdogs Shelter in Atlanta, Georgia, Keith didn’t hesitate. He ran into the building with hopes of saving as many animals as he could. What he wound up doing makes him nothing short of a hero.

This Homeless Man Runs Into A Burning Shelter With A Single Mission: Save Every Animal – Buzznet

Meet California’s “Toy Man,” a humanitarian who’s brought joy to thousands of kids
His donations over the years have been funded entirely by his personal savings, including money he invested from his earnings in the stock market.

Meet California’s “Toy Man,” a humble humanitarian who’s brought joy to thousands of kids – CBS News

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Love,

Neville

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