Your Soul Food for Friday April 25th 2025: Your Antidote for Dysregulation

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Greetings!

Feeling a bit dysregulated?

Neuroscience Says Music Is an Emotion Regulation Machine. Here’s What to Play for Happiness, Productivity, or Deep Thinking:
Neuroscience shows music has big effects on our productivity, performance, and state of mind. Use that to your advantage.

What kind of headspace do you want to be in today?

Focused and productive as you tick through routine to-do list items?

Dreamy and creative? Happy and social? Contemplative? Analytical?

Whatever mood you’re aiming for, neuroscience says music can help.

The Best Music for Productivity, Happiness, or Studying

Want some live music, in an arts and culture context, with 250 featured artists, 4 live music stages, interactive art and free trolly tickets for the first 3,000 that use their phones to sign up?

Yes, Kids and Dogs will have a blast too…

Its Mission Fed ArtWalk 2025!

17 years of us serving as title sponsors for the largest arts and longest running (41 years) arts experience on the West Coast, this coming weekend Sat April 26 and Sun April 27th in Little Italy. Come enjoy a day immersed in art, and if you are yearning for some live music, join us on Saturday April 26th from 3:30 to 4:30p as Strange Crew plays on the Main Stage in the Piazza della Famiglia followed by my son Arman’s band Tone Deaf from 5-6p, with me sitting in on percussion on both sets.

Entertainment 2025 – Mission Fed ArtWalk

Here is a KUSI TV feature from last week: (4 mins)

Muck Rack | KUSI-SD – Good Evening San Diego at 04:00 PM

And here is a CloudCast media podcast with Jacob from ArtWalk and me talking about the Mission Fed ArtWalk experience and its importance for San Diego:

The ArtWalk San Diego interview “Spotlight on the Community” Show:

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3eFjNRSRbiCpuRLTxvqmGA?si=CRsjMrwxTeSlEq_lEqw3YQ

Applehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/artwalk/id1517680573?i=1000704319632

Why it’s time to rethink what happiness really means:
Explaining exactly what’s going on in our brains when we experience joy or pleasure remains frustratingly out of reach this year once again saw the publication of the annual World Happiness Report. The latest international rankings put Finland at number one and several other Nordic countries dominating the top 10.

Why it’s time to rethink what happiness really means | BBC Science Focus Magazine

Please pay it forward.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the Week of International Women’s Day 2025- Speak Up and Take a Stand for What Really Matters and Go Women!

Happy Soul Food Friday,

This week:

Heads Up!

The first part of this week’s missive is political and personal so if you don’t have the stomach for it, I completely understand, just skip to the second part which is a reminder to celebrate the women in our lives.

No bystanding!

Love,

Neville

As a peaceful warrior, I generally try to model discretion over valor, but this week I am done sitting on the sidelines, and if that means I am “offsides” and “offend” then so be it.

Divisiveness is not my aim, but unless you are a member of the 1st world nations you like me are an immigrant, and we are stronger because of our diversity not because of white supremacy or other narratives that are not reflective of this nation’s history and vibrancy.

Systemic racism, white colonialism and revisionist history will not save this country or planet, no matter how hard to try to hide in its cloaks and daggers.

The greater the hiding, the greater the self-revelation…

If you are torqued by this week’s Soul Food Friday missive, apologies as for more than 15 years, my goal, purpose and aim was to bring some positivity to what seemed like a environment that privileged sensationalism, negativity and polarization,  but if I freak you out today, I think it is best that you simply skip, so I don’t trigger you further.

You deserve statis and peace.

Regardless, at least you will know where I stand at this generational crisis which will inevitably have long term implications for those that follow including your kids and grandkids.

The Courage to be Disliked:

The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness: Kishimi, Ichiro, Koga, Fumitake: 9781501197277: Amazon.com: Books

More likes are definitely not my metric of success.

While tough to swallow, I am totally cool with being unliked if I am doing the right thing in support and service of others that can’t always be at the table for themselves. Being liked is a social crutch I would prefer to set aside and walk or hobble on my own two feet.

Likes and FOMO have completely messed up the entire “anxious generation” as we post all our bull$#!+ pics of our best selves, living our fabricated and often phony best lives -sometimes with the help of a professional photographer capturing the best shots of an idealized experience that simply does not exist- once we step into your living room and watch you interact with your friends and family.

Alternatively, if you are pumped, jacked, mobilized, emboldened, want to act but don’t know what to do, care deeply but are concerned about downstream consequences and threats, please don’t waste this crisis and let’s make sure your voice is heard.

Do hold space and grace by serving as an ally- no bystanding- human up!- for those who can’t raise their voices for fear of retaliation, targeting, or suffering indignities on top of immense suffering on an unlevel playing field, where social mobility is no longer available to all, and where purported “leaders” would rather kiss Nero’s ring than fess up to the reality that the US is burning and good people stand idly by while the rule of law is threatened, separation of powers is sidelined, the rich get richer on the backs of the poor and middle class, and power corrupts, while absolute power corrupts absolutely!.

Enough is enough…

Can you feel it?

My soul is stirred and meeting the moment this week means speaking truth to power, justice and mercy to cruelty, sanity to inanity, and being present with what is bereft due to social hypnosis, perseverating on risk of loss, or other rationalizations that keep us on the sideline while democracy devolves in front of our eyes.

But that is being nice…

I know that some of my relatives, friends, neighbors, co-workers, associates, and fellow Americans may unfriend me and that would be unfortunate, but I can’t stay quiet!

It is too important. 

This is where I stand. 

The 47th President, his power-hungry cronies taking positions of authority in his Cabinet and administration, and the majority of Republicans in Congress are a real and active threat to me, my way of life, and all or most of the people I love.

Some people are saying that we should give Trump a chance, that we should “work together” with him because he won the election, and he is “everyone’s president.” 

This is my response:

•I will not forget how badly he and so many others treated former President Barack Obama for 8 years…Lies about his legitimacy and hatred for his principles and his attempts to work within the system.

•I will not “work together” to privatize Medicare, cut Social Security and Medicaid.

•I will not “work together” to subvert the Constitution by illegitimately pushing unfit Cabinet nominees through on recess appointments without the advice and consent of the Senate.

•I will not “work together” to build a wall.

•I will not “work together” to persecute Muslims.

•I will not “work together” to shut out refugees from other countries.

•I will not “work together” to lower taxes on the 1% and increase taxes on the middle class and poor.

•I will not “work together” to help Trump use the Presidency to line his pockets and those of his family and cronies.

•I will not “work together” to weaken and demolish environmental protection.

•I will not “work together” to sell American lands, especially National Parks, to companies which then despoil those lands.

•I will not “work together” to enable the killing of whole species of animals just because they are predators, or inconvenient for a few, or because some people want to get their thrills killing them.

•I will not “work together” to remove civil rights from anyone.

•I will not “work together” to alienate countries that have been our allies for as long as I have been alive.

•I will not “work together” to slash funding for education.

•I will not “work together” to take basic assistance from people who are at the bottom of the socioeconomic ladder.

•I will not “work together” to get rid of common-sense regulations on guns.

•I will not “work together” to eliminate the minimum wage.

•I will not “work together” to support so-called “Right To Work” laws, or undermine, weaken or destroy Unions in any way.

•I will not “work together” to suppress scientific research, be it on climate change, fracking, or any other issue where a majority of scientists agree that Trump and his supporters are wrong on the facts.

•I will not “work together” to criminalize abortion or restrict health care for women.

•I will not “work together” to increase the number of nations that have nuclear weapons.

•I will not “work together” to put even more “big money” into politics.

•I will not “work together” to violate the Geneva Convention.

•I will not “work together” to give the Ku Klux Klan, the Nazi Party and white supremacists a seat at the table, or to normalize their hatred.

•I will not “work together” to deny health care to people who need it.

•I will not “work together” to deny medical coverage to people on the basis of a “pre-existing condition.”

•I will not “work together” to increase voter suppression.

•I will not “work together” to normalize tyranny.

•I will not “work together” to eliminate or reduce ethical oversight at any level of government.

•I will not “work together” with anyone who is, or admires, tyrants and dictators.

•I will not support anyone that thinks it’s OK to put a pipeline to transport oil on Sacred Ground for Native Americans. And, it would run under the Missouri River, which provides drinking water for millions of people. An accident waiting to happen.

•I will not “work together” to legitimize racism, sexism, and authoritarianism.

This is my line, and I am drawing it.

•I WILL stand for honesty, love, respect for all living beings, and for the beating heart that is the center of Life itself.

•I WILL use my voice and my hands, to reach out to the uninformed, and to anyone who will LISTEN:

That “winning”, “being great again”, “rich” or even “beautiful” is nothing… When others are sacrificed to glorify its existence.

I am joining my fellow Americans in this noble and honorable expression of conscience, conviction, justice, morality, faith, commitment, democracy, and informed patriotism.

Zero pressure, but if you agree, it is your turn. 

Copy, paste into your email and/or preferred social media platform, add your name to the top and launch a chain.

The Entire World Is Pissed at Trump-and It May Cost the U.S. Big Time
Donald Trump’s tariffs aren’t the only thing that will wreck the U.S. economy.

newrepublic.com/maz/post/192658/donald-trump-global-boycott-us-goods

Trump’s regime is fated to collapse:
Despite its chest-beating rhetoric, the Trump regime is actually brittle and fated to ineffectiveness, collapse or both.

Why Trump’s regime is fated to collapse

It’s Time to Ditch the Term DEI
We can’t debate its merits when we don’t agree on what it means. On President Donald Trump’s first day back in the White House, he issued an executive order ending diversity, equity, and inclusion in the federal government. Its sweeping language forbids DEI “mandates, policies, programs, preferences, and activities,” and orders the termination of all DEI positions—hundreds if not thousands of roles.

‘DEI’ Has Lost All Meaning – The Atlantic

Trump’s FBI Moves to Criminally Charge Major Climate Groups
The Trump administration is targeting climate organizations that received a Biden-era grant.

newrepublic.com/maz/post/192660/trump-fbi-charge-climate-organizations

Trump cuts to NOAA already felt in San Diego
Cuts to the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration affect research and sea monitoring partnerships between NOAA and Scripps Institution of Oceanography.

Trump cuts to NOAA already felt in San Diego | KPBS Public Media

Trump takes an ax to more than a dozen pollution rules in rapid-fire deregulation

Trump takes an ax to more than a dozen pollution rules in rapid-fire deregulation | CNN

Banned Articles?
Did you know that NOAA recently released a new Climate Literacy Guide? This incredible resource aims to help communicators and decision-makers develop their understanding of climate change—but it was recently scrubbed from their website, severely minimizing its impact and reach. You can at least learn about it here.

Read Banned Books and Articles!
Federal science agencies update the nation’s climate literacy guide | National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration

Trump’s Assault on Universities Is a Wake-Up Call
American higher education would be in a much stronger position today if it had made a proactive case to the public for its own importance—and taken steps to address its very real shortcomings.

Trump’s Assault on Universities Is a Wake-Up Call – The Atlantic

Chaos on campuses as schools warn Trump cuts could harm US ‘for decades’
President’s slashes to higher education institutions and research funding threaten US public health

Chaos on campuses as schools warn Trump cuts could harm US ‘for decades’ | Trump administration | The Guardian

Education Department to slash half its workforce
“Employees will not be permitted in any ED facility on Wednesday, March 12th, for any reason,” a message to agency staff Tuesday stated.

Education Department to slash half its workforce – POLITICO

“Science is under attack”: Hundreds rally at UC San Diego to protest DOGE cuts
From Social Security to the IRS, federal budget cuts under the Trump administration are being felt everywhere. On Friday, the focus turned to science—nationwide and at UC San Diego.

Hundreds gather at UC San Diego for the Stand Up for Science rally | KPBS Public Media

“It is unbelievably ironic to me that the desire to vilify noncriminal immigration for the purposes of expressing a policy of xenophobia and racism is going to come at the cost of prosecuting actual transborder violent crime, which one would assume would be of greater importance” – Ex-US Attorney Sheley Ex-U.S. Attorney: Immigration Order Is Diverting San Diego Feds from Fentanyl, Scam Fight – Times of San Diego

Want to Help Fight ICE Raids? There’s a Map for That.
This group has developed a new app to help keep everyone one step ahead of Donald Trump’s deportation schemes

newrepublic.com/maz/article/192619/donald-trump-ice-raids-immigration-map-tracker

Forwarded this email? Subscribe here for more A Mind is a Terrible Thing to Lose Especially when you’re running a country Paul Krugman Mar 12               A note to subscribers: I’ve taken my weekend primer on Social Security out from behind the paywall, partly in response to popular demand but also because it’s relevant to today’s post. This will, I hope, be a fairly short post. That’s partly because my schedule is really tight at the moment and I don’t have time for detailed analysis. But it’s also because I don’t want too much analysis to clutter up a very simple point: The two most powerful men in America have gone stark raving mad. I don’t say this because I disagree with their ideologies or believe that they have very bad policy ideas. That’s been true for quite a few politicians over the years. But while I’ve always considered, say, Mitch McConnell a malign influence on America, while I described Paul Ryan as a flimflam man, I never questioned their sanity. And yes, I’m well aware of the dangers involved in questioning people’s mental stability from afar, especially in a political context. I personally have been the target of that sort of thing, back when people accused me of being unhinged for suggesting that the Bush administration was taking us to war on false pretenses. But I don’t see how you can look at recent statements by Donald Trump and Elon Musk without concluding that both men have lost their grip on reality. News reports still tend to sanewash what our leaders have been saying, and even selected quotations often make them sound more rational than they are. Fortunately, both are addicted to posting on social media, and you really have to read some of their posts to get a full sense of the madness. So here’s Trump, ranting against Canada: Leave aside the nonsensical claims that Canada is a high-tariff nation subsidized by the United States. When Trump first began talking about turning Canada into the 51st state, many people treated it as a joke. But Trump doesn’t appear to be in on the joke. He just keeps doubling down, even as the people of Canada grow ever more outraged. No sane leader would imagine that it’s a good idea to threaten a heretofore friendly but proudly patriotic neighbor and ally with annexation. But a sane leader is exactly what we don’t have. Then there’s Elon Musk. Surely almost everyone except Trump realizes that DOGE has been a bust; despite unprecedented and often illegal access to government agencies, it has yet to come up with any credible major examples of waste or fraud. Even Musk, I suspect, knows at some level that he’s failing. But like Trump on Canada, he just keeps doubling down. Consider Musk’s quickly and easily refuted claim that tens of millions of dead people are receiving Social Security checks. This was a deeply embarrassing error, one that would have killed most people’s political careers. Still, Musk might have been able to ride it out by admitting that his minions had failed to understand the Social Security Administration’s databases. But no. Musk has reiterated his claim that we’re making huge payments to dead people, and is now insisting that Social Security is a Ponzi scheme, showing that he hasn’t made any effort to understand how the bedrock of American retirement works. Musk’s obsession with supposed fraud in Social Security is looking a lot like Trump’s obsession with annexing Canada; apparently he simply can’t admit error, even to himself, and change course. And then there’s this: Of course, illegal immigrants don’t receive Social Security benefits, because they don’t have valid Social Security numbers. But that’s almost trivial compared with Musk’s open endorsement of the Great Replacement conspiracy theory, according to which liberals are deliberately luring nonwhite immigrants to America to tilt the electorate in their favor. This is the conspiracy theory that inspired torch-carrying marchers in Charlottesville to chant “Jews will not replace us.” And look beyond what Trump and Musk have said to the actions of the people they’ve chosen to oversee key public agencies. Robert F. Kennedy, the secretary of health and human services, refuses to respond to a measles outbreak with a clear call for vaccinations, instead suggesting that people take cod liver oil. The secretary of agriculture has suggested that Americans respond to high egg prices by raising their own chickens. How did the highest levels of U.S. government become infected by madness? Well, this is what you get when you give flawed people — people prone to grandiosity, vindictiveness and paranoia — so much power that nobody dares tell them when they’re going too far. Cowed Republicans and timid Democrats have effectively given Trump and Musk the freedom to become the worst versions of themselves. And the whole world will pay the price.  

7 ways to safeguard your money as the Trump administration weakens consumer protections:
7 ways to safeguard your money as the Trump administration weakens consumer protections  – MarketWatch

Now Imagine…

International Women’s Day 2025

Rights. Equality. Empowerment

On International Women’s Day (8 March), that is the bold call for action for all women and girls worldwide. 

There is much more work to be done…

International women’s day

Happy International Women’s Day. Here are the best female composers of all time
Our guide to the best female composers from history, many of whom have historically been wrongly excluded from the canon. Let’s put that right – get to know their music now!

Best female composers of all time: 15 women who left a huge mark on classical music | Classical Music

These are just evidentiary examples.

Let’s meet the moment, to our own selves be true, and be active agents of democracy and uplifting humanity, not passive victims of a system that serves the few on the backs of many.

It is time to show up. NOW!

Thanks this week to Ken D for the spark, Chris B for some links, Charles B for reminding me its ok to be disliked and you for speaking truth to power!

Love,

Neville

Your Soul Food for Memorial Day Weekend 2024: “If you have to ask what Jazz is, you will never know” –Louis Armstrong

This week: The Divine Power of Music

One of my Favorite Classical Music Pieces Ever!

Jeneba Kanneh-Mason stuns with blistering take on Liszt’s Hungarian Rhapsody No.2
A masterpiece of 19th-century piano repertoire, forever linked with the joy of Tom and Jerry…

Jeneba Kanneh-Mason stuns with blistering take on Liszt’s Hungarian Rhapsody No.2 – Classic FM

Here is my first foray, conducting this very same piece as an elementary school kid in Bombay, India at around age 11:

Cathedral School, Bombay, India

Elbow turn Manchester crowd into 23,500-strong choir in spine-tingling harmony:
The most life-affirming sound you’ll ever hear: a crowd of thousands of music lovers, lifting their voices in glorious harmony.

Elbow turn Manchester crowd into 23,500-strong choir in spine-tingling harmony – Classic FM

15 composers and their dogs:

15 composers and their dogs – Classical Music (classical-music.com)

Steven Tyler’s Unusual Response To A Disabled Fan Went Viral – Here’s What He Said:
Anthony Yorfido, a young man from Niagara Falls, ran into Steven Tyler, the frontman of Aerosmith. What began as a chance encounter at a medical supplies store soon became a moment that would change Anthony’s life forever. Read on to see what amazing things Tyler did for this kind fan.

Steven Tyler Made His Disabled Fan’s Dreams Come True – Buzznet

“I Just Started to Play the Faure’ Pavane, Just for Fun. And Then She Started Playing with Me by Ear!”

‘She’s a miracle kid’ – star pianist Lang Lang on Lucy, last year’s winner of The… – Classic FM

Why Do We Sing? New Analysis of Folk Songs Finds Similarities around the World:
Across the globe, singing traditions are vast and varied. Their commonalities may help explain how music evolved

Why Do We Sing? New Analysis of Folk Songs Finds Similarities around the World | Scientific American

Dance and percussion group puts on a show for travelers at San Diego International Airport:
If you’re headed out of San Diego International Airport over the next week, you may encounter some unexpected sights and sounds that could bring your travel experience to life in a whole new way.

Dance and percussion group puts on a show for travelers at San Diego International Airport – NBC 7 San Diego (nbcsandiego.com)

Thanks to musicians and music lovers everywhere!

Play it forward.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday April 12, 2024: Making Every day the Best Day of the Year at Work, at Play, in Nature, with Animals, in Wonder!

This week:

If you are local-

Gig Alerts for the Rest of April: 3 Gigs, 2 Bands, 1 Double Header, All a Fun Time!

If you are in the mood, or the hood, here are some live music options at very respectable hours across the county:

Drivin the Bus at the Loma Club in Point Loma this Sunday April 14th from 1 to 4pm No Cover

Loma Club – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

Drivin the Bus at Mission Fed ArtWalk in Little Italy in the Piazza della Famiglia on the Main Stage, on West Date Street- Saturday April 27th from 12:30 to 1:30 Free, + you can explore the amazing annual art scene either before or after!

Little Italy Mission Federal Artwalk – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

Strange Crew Clapton Tribute Night Saturday April 27th from 6 to 10pm at Duck Foot Brewing in Miramar at 8920 Kenamar Drive. No Cover

Strange Crew – Clapton Tribute Night! | Duck Foot Brewing Co (duckfootbeer.com)

Stay Thirsty My Friends!

Join me for a free virtual conversation, on establishing and nurturing a thriving, inclusive workplace culture that enhances employee engagement and drives positive business outcomes:

 Triton Table Talk | Building and Measuring Cultural Impact.

5:00p (Pacific Time) on Tuesday, April 23.

Register here: https://web.cvent.com/event/b76cfb27-764a-45c1-b021-170991e80965/summary

You are also more than welcome to invite guests or other team mates to attend.

Help address the current crisis of overcrowding in our local shelters:

Copy and paste one of the ads at the site below on your social media accounts to help get the word out and you will get a round of apaws!

Announcing Project Dog Foster! (campaign-view.com)

The vorfreude secret: 30 zero-effort ways to fill your life with joy
How can you change your life for the better today? Learn not just to appreciate happiness – but to anticipate it

The vorfreude secret: 30 zero-effort ways to fill your life with joy | Health & wellbeing | The Guardian

The Neuroscience of the Total Solar Eclipse Makes Us All Happier and More United
An eclipse is the ultimate awe-inspiring event, and a mountain of science shows awe makes us less stressed and more connected.

The Neuroscience of Why Solar Eclipses Make Us Feel Happier and More United | Inc.com

Solar eclipse: The 20 best photos from 2024’s celestial spectacle
The most stunning images from the cosmic event of the century. April 09, 2024 Eclipse fever has gripped large parts of Mexico, USA and Canada. Millions of people flocked to areas in the path of totality to experience this rare total solar eclipse, and festivals have been held in many towns and cities to celebrate this amazing natural wonder. The excitement has been compounded by the fact that this total solar eclipse coincides with the Sun reaching its peak in activity during its 11-year cycle.

Solar eclipse: The 20 best photos from 2024’s celestial spectacle – BBC Science Focus Magazine

Thanks this week go to Ogy M, Paul T, Bob C, & Charles C.

Love,

Neville

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