Your Soul Food for Sept 20, 2024: Men Need to Know It’s Okay + Practicing Unconditional Love, Forgiveness, Connectedness and Gratitude

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Speaking Words of Wisdom – Dr. Paul C:

Enjoy, the time you have left. 

You have everything you need, and more. 

Stop trying to make it be a different way. 

I am here.

This is it. 

Pay attention.

Be a good person.

Love is the saving grace. 

Man’s Humanity to Man:

Friends, family, and colleagues,

This is a cause near and dear to my heart.

My first experience with volunteerism, at about 11 years old was feeding formula to undernourished kids in a slum in Bombay, now Mumbai, which less than a mile from where we lived, housed nearly a million people in a couple of square miles!

My peers thought I was nuts, but it shaped my world view and sparked a profound appreciation for how different life can be based on luck of the genetic draw, circumstances, and how each of us can do our part to make life a little better for those around us.

Decades later, I would never have imagined, that in one of the most prosperous nations on earth, kids in San Diego were going home hungry over the weekend.

I thought this was a developing world problem not a first world problem, but alas, this is a reality for way too many San Diegan kids and their families.

Indulge me in watching this 5-minute video and if you feel inspired, donate even $1 to help address food insufficiency in our community.

Thanks for your open heart, generous soul, and consideration!

But for the grace of God and winning the genetic lottery go I and perhaps you too…

San Diego Food Bank’s Food 4 Kids Backpack Program (youtube.com)

Here is the link in case you choose to donate:

Join Mission Fed in Supporting the Food 4 Kids Backpack Program (donorsupport.co)

Love,

Neville

Back to School:

Hopefully, everyone has settled in 😊

Buitengebieden on X: “Back to school.. 😊 https://t.co/h9u8pKNbxL” / X

The surprising truth about loneliness in America
American men were said to be in a “friendship recession,” with a survey finding the number of men without any close friends increased fivefold since 1990.

Who’s at risk for chronic loneliness? | Vox

Young people today are stressed, depressed and reshaping the happiness curve
Young adults — ages 18 to 25 — report being unhappier now than people in their 40s and 50s. Here are some potential explanations and solutions.

New research: Young people are reshaping the happiness curve (cnbc.com)

The 3-3-3 Rule Can Be a Mental Health Game Changer
If you’re suffering from anxiety, it’s absolutely worth a try.

14 Natural Remedies to Reduce Anxiety ASAP (goodhousekeeping.com)

Buy Experiences instead of Possessions to Build Social Connection
Shared experiences, more than material things, bring people together Mind & Brain The human being is a “social animal,” as Aristotle suggested. We have a fundamental need to belong. Yet we are living in a time when the U.S. Surgeon General has warned about an epidemic of loneliness and isolation. A lack of social connection can have negative consequences for both our mental and physical health. How, then, might we encourage the feelings of connectedness that are so integral to our well-being?

Buy Experiences instead of Possessions to Build Social Connection | Scientific American

Neuroscience Says Doing This For Just 1 Hour a Week Can Make Your Brain 5 Years Younger
Research shows keeping your brain sharp as you age is easier than you probably imagine.

Neuroscience Says Doing This for Just 1 Hour a Week Can Make Your Brain 5 Years Younger | Inc.com

6 Expert-Endorsed Techniques to Help You Get to Sleep Fast (and Stay Asleep!)
Here are some real tactics you can use next time you’re having trouble falling asleep

How to Fall Asleep Fast, According to Sleep Experts (realsimple.com)

Hearty thanks this week go to Dr. Paul C, The San Diego Food Bank and Mission Fed as well as you Kindhearted Citizens Everywhere.

Please pay it forward!
Love,
Neville
 
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Your Soul Food for Independence Day Week 2024: Here’s to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness

This week:

What are the consequences of America’s unresolved history? 

That’s the question raised by a new book by journalist and historian Nick Bryant. The book maps a path from the founding of the United States to the current political state of the country and argues that the political divisiveness we see today is a natural part of the country’s story. Nick Bryant joins us to talk about the lessons we can learn from America’s history and is a compelling listen!

America’s “Forever War” | 1A (the1a.org)

If you believe history comes in cycles, and at the end of each cycle comes an inevitable fourth turning- typically of great crisis and upheaval, the fourth turning might be here now!

Neil Howe says the 4th turning is here. What does that mean for America in a moment of crisis? | Here & Now (wbur.org)

Humility is the foundation to a virtuous life.
Humility doesn’t get the fanfare of virtues like courage, compassion, or generosity. But without humility, those other virtues won’t get much traction in the quest to live a good life.

Humility is the foundation to a virtuous life (theconversation.com)

These 3 daily practices are the Japanese ‘secret’ for a ‘long and happy life.
Okinawa, Japan has the highest concentration of centenarians worldwide. Here are three principles that may lead to their longevity.

Ikigai: 3 daily practices for a ‘long and happy life’ (cnbc.com)

Leopard Visits The Same Cow Every Night, Then A Farmer Sets Up A Camera And Sees Why
The quiet village of Antoli in Vadodara, Gujarat, India, had a nightly visitor, a leopard. After they observed the wild animal for some time, it became obvious that the creature wasn’t looking to cause harm. Instead, she was looking for someone, an unlikely friend.

Leopard Visits The Same Cow Every Night, Then A Farmer Sets Up A Camera And Sees Why – Buzznet

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Please pay it forward!

Neville

Your Soul Food for May Day 2024: May is Mental Health Awareness Month. End the Stigma. Make it OK.

This week:

Purpose in Life Can Lead to Less Stress, Better Mental Well-Being:

Psychiatry.org – Purpose in Life Can Lead to Less Stress, Better Mental Well-being

There Are 5 ‘Stress Languages.’ Here’s How To Figure Out Yours.
You’ve heard of love languages, but what about these? Experts break down each type and what they say about how you handle stress.

What Is Your Stress Language? | HuffPost Life

What is Your Language of Appreciation at Work?

In the spirit of the platinum rule v. the golden rule, where the Golden Rule says, “Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you”, the Platinum Rule suggests: “Do unto others, as others would have done unto themselves.

Use the 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace | Great Place To Work®

Inspiration-

Homeless Man Rushes Into A Burning Animal Shelter And Saves Every Animal, Here’s The Story
After a kitchen fire started at the W-Underdogs Shelter in Atlanta, Georgia, Keith didn’t hesitate. He ran into the building with hopes of saving as many animals as he could. What he wound up doing makes him nothing short of a hero.

This Homeless Man Runs Into A Burning Shelter With A Single Mission: Save Every Animal – Buzznet

Meet California’s “Toy Man,” a humanitarian who’s brought joy to thousands of kids
His donations over the years have been funded entirely by his personal savings, including money he invested from his earnings in the stock market.

Meet California’s “Toy Man,” a humble humanitarian who’s brought joy to thousands of kids – CBS News

Please Pay it forward.

Love,

Neville

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